Mu angati miyezi aang'ono ndi mmene kuthandiza mwana wawo njira yoyamba?

Choyamba masitepe osadalira pa makolo mwana, monga ulamuliro, akuyembekezera ndi kusaleza kwambiri. Komabe, ngati ana mukudziwa kale zovuta kumapondetsa mapazi kuzungulira nyumba, pali funso zomveka: "Pakuti miyezi ambiri aang'ono ndi ngati mwana wanga sakhala kwanthawi kumbuyo mu chitukuko?"

Nthawi zambiri amapezeka pa zaka pafupifupi chaka chimodzi. Komabe, sitiyenera kuiwala kuti aliyense mwana ali osiyana. Wina amadzuka mofulumira mu miyendo ndi mwezi chakhumi cha moyo zabwinobwino kuyenda ndi munthu wina akufuna kuchita izo nthawi yoyamba mu chaka ndi miyezi iwiri kapena itatu. Ndipo chifukwa palibe yankho limodzi kwa funso mmene miyezi ambiri, ana amayamba kuyenda, kulibe.

Ngati mwana wanu sanapite chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri, sitiyenera yomweyo mantha. Ana ena mwachibadwa bata kwambiri, akaona dziko sanakonde atakhala, koma mawu kuyenda ndi ndithu chabe kukwawa. Anthu ena, pambuyo kumvetsera abale ndi abwenzi, kuganiza monga mwana amene safuna kuyenda, kuphunzira nawonso kulankhula ndi kusafuna kwambiri. Komabe, si choncho - pali ana amene amakhudzana ndi makolo woyankhula ndi miyezi 11-12 ndi kuyamba kuyenda chaka. Mawu, kuno aliyense payekha, koma chifukwa cha zonse ngoziyo chitsanzo sangathe. madokotala General padziko lonse pa funso mmene miyezi ambiri, ana amayamba kuyenda, itanani manambala mlingo kuchokera 9 mpaka 15.

Kodi kuthandiza mwana wanu kuyamba kuyenda? Choyamba msiyeni iye yekha kuti adziwe luso limeneli zofunika. Sikuti anachita mantha, kuthamangira kwa nyenyeswa nthawi iliyonse, mwamsanga pamene iye agwa. The mwana ayenera kuphunzira kuthetsa mavuto adzauka patapita kugwa, kukwera pamwamba otsika.

Chipinda akhoza anapereka eni, atamugwira mwana simudzavutika kusuntha (mwachitsanzo mipando). Pang'onopang'ono kuwonjezera mtunda akhale pakati pawo. Pakuti nzothandiza, mukhoza kukonza chidole mumaikonda nyenyeswa pa malo kumene iye anayenera kusiya thandizo kwa iwo. Iwe ukhoza kugula chikuku wapadera kapena galimoto-tolokar: kuchitsatira kumbuyo, mwana wanu adzatha kukankhira chidole ndi kusuntha. Koma kuchokera choyendera ayenera adzasiyidwa: iwo kusokoneza kuyenda kuphunzira.

Mukhoza kuchita kutikita mwanayo anayamba kuyenda mofulumira. Kodi kuchita kutikita, inu mukhoza kudziwa dokotala anu.

Komabe, ngati pali funso: "Kodi kuchita - mwanayo sayenda, ndipo iye anali kale zaka 1.5?" Kapena mwana, anayamba ulendo woyamba kufufuza dziko, chokwawa padziko miyendo, mwadzidzidzi anawasiya - ichi ndi chifukwa Onetsetsani kuti amayamba kuda nkhawa. Zimene zikhoza zalumikizana?

• pakalibe pamalo akanati akankhidwira mwanayo kusuntha paokha mothandizidwa ndi mapazi;
• akamakonda zakudya;
• maganizo kuti mwanayo anali pamene iye choyamba anayesa kupita;
• ntchito zosiyanasiyana sasinthasintha (ana amene akugwira ntchito kusuntha ngati pali thandizo yeniyeni, sakuona kufunika kochita nokha);
• ukhale mu malo ochepa (mwachitsanzo, m'bwalo la masewera);
• kutengera za kumtundu.

Mu aliyense wa milandu, yankho lanzeru ndi zomveka ndi kufunafuna thandizo la akatswiri amene angakuthandizeni kupeza muzu wa vuto ndi kulikonza ilo.

Tsopano inu mukudziwa mmene miyezi ambiri, ana amayamba kuyenda, ndipo mukhoza kuthandiza mwana wanu mofulumira kupanga njira yoyamba mu dziko yaikulu!