Momwe mungayanjanitsire ndi mnyamata.

Nthawi zina maubwenzi angakhale ovuta kumanga, ndipo kuwapulumutsa ndikovuta kwambiri. Pawiri nthawi iliyonse amadutsamo mayesero ndi mikangano ndi zoopsa. Ndikofunika kuti mutha kupeza mphamvu mwa inu nokha kuti munene "ndikhululukireni" pakapita nthawi. Nthawi zambiri asungwana sakudziwa zomwe anganene kwa mnyamatayo. Inde, njira yosavuta ndikuyankha: musamakangane. Koma izi sizingatheke, chifukwa zochititsa manyazi, malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, ndizofunikira kwambiri pa chiyanjano chilichonse. Amalola mwamuna ndi mkazi kukhala omasuka maganizo. Koma, ndithudi, ndi bwino kunena za kufunikira kwa mikangano pokhapokha ngati nthawi zonse zimathera bwino ndipo ubale pakati pa awiriwo umakhala wabwino kwambiri kuposa kale.

Momwe mungayanjanitsire ndi mnyamata? Funso limeneli lakhazikitsidwa ndi atsikana ambiri omwe amatsutsana ndi okondedwa awo. Kwenikweni, si zophweka kuti mupite kuyanjanitso: kunyada, mkwiyo kapena kusakhutira kuyang'ana zopusa kungasokoneze. Mulimonsemo, msungwana wanzeru ndi wanzeru nthawi zonse adzapeza njira yoyanjanirana ndi bwenzi lako lokonda.

Choyamba, muyenera kuzizira. Pamene mu liwu lanu padzakhala misonzi ya zotsatira zabwino zomwe simungathe kuzikwaniritsa. Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kupanga choyamba. Koma muyenera kudzipangira nokha ndikupempha kupepesa. Ganizirani za kuti panthawi yomwe mukudandaula za handset ndipo simungathe kudzitchula nokha, osankhidwa anu amachitanso chimodzimodzi. Amuna ambiri sakhala opepesa mosavuta, ndipo ena sangathe kupepesa. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuvomereza kuti sitepe yoyamba idzakhala yanu.

Musanayankhe yankho la funso la momwe mungayanjanitsire ndi mnyamata, dikirani pang'ono, ndiye mwadzidzidzi adzasankha kuchita izo poyamba. Koma musadikire motalika kwambiri, popeza mungathe kutaya nthawi yochuluka ya zopanda kanthu. Onetsetsani. Ngati adayitana koyambirira ndikukupemphani kuti mupepese, simukufunikira kudzimvera nokha, mumvetsetse kuti ndi munthu yemwe adayanjananso, akuyendetsa bwino maofesi ake ndi mfundo zake.

Ngati zinthu zakhala zikuchitika mwanjira yoti ndinu wolakwa, mukuyenera kukhala olimba mtima ndikupempha chikhululuko. Munthu wachikondi amamvetsetsa ndi kuyamikira kukambirana kolimbikitsa, komwe mungapeze zofunikirazo.

Ngati simukudziwa momwe mungayanjanitsire ndi mnyamata, yesetsani kumupangitsa kukhala wodabwitsa. Mwinamwake kudzakhala kugula zomwe wakhala akulota kale, kapena uthenga wachangu wa SMS ndi mawu opemphapempha, kapena chakudya chamakandulo. Pali njira zambiri. Chofunika koposa, muyenera kulapa moona mtima kuti mukhale woyambitsa mikangano. Mukamapanga lonjezo lililonse, yesani kuzikwaniritsa. Pambuyo pake, pambuyo pake munthuyo amangosiya kukukhulupirirani inu ndi mawu anu.

Inde, kuti muleke kuyang'ana yankho la funso la momwe mungayanjanitsire ndi mnyamata, simungathe kukangana naye. Mfundo yakuti anthu kaŵirikaŵiri samakhala okonza zopanda pake. Uwu ndiye ufulu wa amayi. Choncho, yesetsani kuti musasokoneze moyo wanu muzosautsa ndi kuzunza. Mungathe kubwera ndi mawu amodzi, omwe inu nonse mumayenera kukhala chete kwa nthawi, mwachitsanzo, kwa mphindi 5-10. Ndiyeno, mutatha kuzirala pang'ono, mukhoza kupitiriza kulankhula. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, muyenera kutenga lamuloli, mikangano yonse yathetsedwa pano ndi tsopano. Ndi funso lakuti palibe chotheka kuti tigone, osakhala ndi maganizo kapena kugonana. Zimenezi zimabweretsa kuchitika kwa nthawi yayitali ndi chizoloŵezi chosalankhulana wina ndi mzake pambuyo pake. Anthu anzeru ayenera kupeza chinenero chimodzi pambuyo pa mkangano uliwonse ndipo onetsetsani kuti mupanga mtendere. Lankhulani wina ndi mzake, pokhapokha mutha kuyembekezera mtendere ndi mtendere mwa banja lanu kapena banja lanu.