Mapangidwe khalidwe - ndi zosangalatsa!

Achinyamata chifukwa ena amaganiza kuti khalidwe la munthu - ndi mtundu wa mazira, aumbike mwa mankhwala oyambirira mwana.

"Izi kwenikweni ndi khalidwe langa!" - mwachisoni ambiri amati, kusayembekeza zovuta zawo ananena zosayenera analeredwa ana. Iwo amayiwala kuti mapangidwe a chikhalidwe kumachitika pa moyo ndi chikhalidwe sadalira pa dziko kapena pa mbali anatomical kapena thupi.

nyumba yosungiramo katundu wake kulimbikitsa zochita, makhalidwe, maganizo, ambiri chikuyenda. Koma angapo amene akuyesa kusintha zinthu izi kupanga khalidwe mapangidwe cholinga chachikulu cha moyo. Ndipo ngati munthu angakhale wosangalala ndi zogwirizana, ngati zonse kusakhutira ndi mwini? Kodi aliyense angathe Mokhumbira, ntchito, kapena kulenga banja losangalala ngati ulesi awo, passivity kapena, pa mwake, mwano ndi nkhanza, adzakhala akuwachititsa "otchulidwa"?

Ntchito pa zotheka ndi kofunika, ndi mapangidwe khalidwe si yovuta, komanso zosangalatsa kwambiri kuchita.

Ndiye tinene kuti munthu sakonda Kukayikakayika posankha zochita kapena dyera chibadidwe chikhalidwe chake. Kuti bwinobwino tichotse awa (kapena) zimaonetsa kuti khalidwe chitukuko bwino, muyenera choyamba ganizirani zimene amapereka khalidwe limeneli. Inu sakusonyeza chifukwa mukuopa kukhala lofunika kwambiri? Kodi inu mantha kukhala mtsogoleri? Koma nthawi zambiri kumathandiza kukwaniritsa zolinga. Kukhala chipolopolo omasuka, osati kufika kwa maganizo awo kapena kutenga zochita pawokha, mungathe kukhala moyo wonse pa masamba a tsoka. Yesani kamodzi kuthetsa kukayikira, ndipo muona yomweyo momwe luso la moyo. Choncho simungathe yekha tichotse iliyonse makhalidwe osafunika, komanso kupanga mapangidwe khalidwe ndondomeko chidwi.

Komabe, kwa kusinkhasinkha ndi ntchito pa zolakwa pang'ono.

Mu gawo lachiwiri ayenera kudziwa ngati khalidwe kwenikweni kuti kuperekedwa Ndipotu ndiwe mwachibadwa. Mwinamwake chinyezimiritso basi maganizo kunja. Inde, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti ngakhale chibwenzi, pofuna kuyang'ana bwino kwambiri kawiri kawiri amayesetsa kuderera anthu ena kudzidalira, negate ulemerero wa ena. Tikaona? Mapangidwe khalidwe akupitirira.

Kuti tichite zimenezi, kutenga pepala ndi kulemba yochepa m'mbali kuti zinthu zimene mukufuna kugula. Ndi yosavuta. "Ndikufuna kukhala watanthauzo. Ine ndasandulika (a) watanthauzo (Pepa). Kuti mankhwala m'njira ziwiri, kuwonjezera dzuwa la ntchito pa kwakukulukulu.

Ambiri, mapangidwe zamaganizo khalidwe, kapena m'malo oimira sayansi imatengedwa chofunika kwa moyo wa munthu aliyense wamkulu. Ndipotu achinyamata kale zaka 12 amatha kupenda makhalidwe awo, kuzindikira za zifukwa kupambana kapena kulephera. Choncho, anthu amene Sakufuna kusintha okha bwino, muyaya munakhala mu unyamata, ndi akunja.

Pamene kusintha analakalaka khalidwe anaima ndipo analembedwa, gawo lotsatira la ntchito pa china.

Tangoganizani ngwazi, amene anafuna kukhala ngati. Chumacho ndi kuyankhulana maganizo, funsani kukambirana zimene wawo, makhalidwe ofanana. Inetu, ndi chidwi kwambiri forrest gump. Kusadziwa (chifukwa cha nzeru) kuti Mokhumbira zovuta, iye anangochita maganizo kunali koyenera. Mosazengereza kapena kukaikira. Ndipo adakwaniritsa mwaife kwambiri kuposa ŵanyake maganizo otukuka.

Gawo lotsiriza la ntchito pa wekha kudzakhala kovuta, adzakhala ndi moyo. Ndipotu khalidwe - ndi makhalidwe omwewo. Ndipo kuti tichotse zizolowezi zoipa, m'pofunika kuthana nawo. Ife ntchito kukatenga chidutswa kwambiri zokoma nokha? Kuupereka kwa wina. Chikondi malo okha monga anzeru kwambiri mu ofesi? Ndivomerezana kwa mnzake azigwiritsa ntchito nzeru zake. Saopa kufotokoza maganizo? Ndikuganiza ozvuchte ndi zaphindu vutolo. Tiyeni silidzakhala bwino. Koma inu sadzakhalanso mu udindo wa mbewa wamantha, inu tidzakambirana. Kodi iwe ukuchita mantha kuti adziwane bwino? Kumwetulira pa mlendo, kuyesera kuyankhula kwa iye.

Chitani, ndipo patapita masabata ochepa moyo wanu adzakhala owala ndi zambiri kudzazidwa.