Makolo amene muyamba mwana wanu: Genius kapena tizilombo?

Posachedwapa, pali chizolowezi kuchepetsa ogwira ntchito angathe ndi kuwonjezeka mu majeremusi yogwira. Koma mwina anthu ochepa kuti makolo chimakhudza onse aggravation, ndi yankho pabvuto ili.

Choyamba, ine ndikufuna kuti ndikupatseni inu amodzi chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri cha moyo. POSACHEDWA, ndinalankhula apakira yapansi. Ndimakhala. Ndikuona kutsika galimoto wamng'ono, wathanzi komanso anavala mkazi. Mu dzanja limodzi iye losindikizidwa mu pulasitiki A4 pepala ndi chithunzi cha mwana, ndipo mtundu ngati matenda. Mu china - thumba wakuda pa phewa lake bwino chikopa thumba ndalama.

Ndipo pano izo ziri pang'ono kulira, ndi kwina ngakhale lazily akufunsa ophimba m'basimo kuti amuthandize ndalama. Ambiri, muyezo wa Moscow okwerera sitima wopemphapempha akatswiri. Ine yomweyo ndinaganiza za osachepera asanu onse ofanana ndi zilembo ake awiri amene ndinaona Kudya wamakhalidwe mu podyera ndi. Choncho, ngakhale adanyamuka: akhoza munthu analenga maphunziro pa napemphapempha akatswiri yapansi panthaka.

Ndipo chidwi kwambiri ndi akazi amenewa yapansi kupereka ndalama. Kuyambira nthawi ina maganizo, ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino - anthu akufuna kuthandiza. Ngakhale mavuto ndi kufalitsa TV onse kukomeza ubiquitous, anthu athu amafuna athandiza. Ndithu yotakata Russian moyo.

Koma wina angafunse kuti, Kodi zonsezi kuchita ndi mutu wa nkhani. Ndi yosavuta. Kuchita izi, tiyeni tiyang'ane pa tsidya lina la ndalama za buku lino. Munthu amene amapereka ndalama kwa mkazi uyu - kuthandiza, kapena kuganiza kuti kumathandiza. Munthu amene akupempha ndipo amalandira ndalama likukula analandira kutsimikizira kuti akhoza kulandira ndalama popanda mumapezera izo.

Ie Apa, zotsatirazi kumachitika: Munthu sangabereke kapena sasamalira china cha mtengo kupulumuka wanu, komanso pantchitoyi. Ndipo chabwino, ngati ndalama izi kwenikweni kupita pa mankhwala a mwana wa munthu wina. Choncho, osachepera, chidzakwaniritsidwa chofuna kuthandiza. Mulimonsemo, vuto lalikulu si kuthetsedwa. anazindikira kuti iye sakadakhoza kuchita kanthu ndi pantchitoyi.

Komanso, pamene inu kupereka ndalama kwa munthu woteroyo, anthu ena kuziwona izo. Monga mukudziwa, chitsanzo choipa ndi opatsirana, ndipo aliyense akhoza kuyamba ntchito. Ndipo ngati inu kuyang'anitsitsa pa malo okuzungulirani, mudzaona kuti chikhalidwe "akupempha" bwino kwambiri anayamba ndi kumachitika m'njira zosiyanasiyana.

Mwachitsanzo Non-koonekeratu achinyamata kuti limathandiza makolo motalika kokwanira. Akagula foni ndi kulipira maphunziro awo, chifukwa iwo ali otanganidwa kukonza ntchito yabwino, etc. Palokha, izi ziri chisamaliro zofunika mwana wake. Koma pali mfundo ina: kwambiri kwa makolo musataye mwana (ziribe kanthu zomwe zaka zake) kuti achite chinachake mu kubwerera kwa thandizo nthawi zonse amalandira makolo.

Zonsezi kanthu koma chilimbikitso kuti sanali kupanga. Mu ulimi ndi ndondomeko pamene munthu agonjera (umabala, amagulitsa) chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwa ena. Izi zikhoza kukhala chinachake cholinga (monga TV kapena galimoto), ndipo mwina utumiki koyenera. Koma icho chiyenera kukhala lofunika, chifukwa, monga ulamuliro, anthu kuphana ndi pa zinthu zofunika kuti tidzapulumuke. Kungakhale ndalama, ndiponso mwina kuthandiza munthu pa nthawi yoyenera.

Choncho, waukulu kulakwitsa makolo ambiri - kukhalabe lingaliro lakuti mwana ali wamng'ono, ofooka, ndipo sankadziwa mmene kupezera chinthu cha mtengo kwa iwo. Moona mtima, si. Mukhoza onani. Ndipo ndikutsimikizani inu, mudzapeza anadabwa zosangalatsa. Ana amatha kwambiri. Makamaka ngati inu kuupereka kwa iwo kusonyeza. Ndi kale mu moyo wabwino.

Mwachitsanzo, lomwe wolemba onse Mozart analemba zimasonyeza yake yoyamba mu zaka 4! Mu zaka 6, iye ndi banja lake anayenda ku Ulaya ndipo anachita pamaso royals lapansi. Mwa njira, ndi chidwi kwambiri mfundo: ngakhale kutchuka kwa ana awo (Wolfgang analinso ndi luso mlongo) ndi makolo awo kukumbukira kuti ana - ndi choyamba, ana amene ayenera kukhala ali mwana ndipo, ndithudi, zosangalatsa ana ndi zosewera. Choncho, wolemekezeka ndi lalikulu woimba Wolfgang zambiri linasokonekera maphunziro ake kusewera ndi mphaka kapena galloped mwa zipinda pamwamba pa ndodo bambo ake.

Ndipo Thomas Edison mwamsanga 10 zaka ankakonda zatsopano mankhwala ndipo analenga mwa chapansi pa choyezera choyamba. Popeza pamafunika ndalama zatsopano, Edison anakhala wogulitsa manyuzipepala ndi maswiti pa sitima zaka 12. Pofuna kuti tiziwononga nthawi anadwala choyezera mankhwala nazo galimoto yake ndi ikuchitika zatsopano m'sitima. Nditakwanitsa zaka 15, ndinagula pa nthawi ya osindikizira mu galimoto katundu kufalitsa nyuzipepala, yomwe anagulitsidwa kwa anthu. namatetule Edison ndi wakhama zapadera tinganene kuti ngati ngongole kwa mayi ake, mphunzitsi wakale sukulu, amene anapitiriza maphunziro ake ndi maphunziro kunyumba, iye anachotsedwa sukulu.

A nzeru zapamwamba odziwika ndi zaumunthu zaka mazana makumi awiri, L. Ron Hubbard, amene anayamba kuphunzitsa pa zaka 17 ndi kukapitiriza maphunziro awo a umunthu mu nkhani waukulu mwatsatanetsatane amawaona maphunziro ndi maphunziro, utsogoleri wake kusintha moyo wa "The Way Chimwemwe" wakhala analimbikitsa zotsatirazi:

"Penyani ana (ngakhale zing'onozing'ono). Mvetserani ku zomwe ana kukuuzani miyoyo yawo. Aloleni kukuthandizani. Ngati simuchita zimenezi, ndi kupondereza unasefukira nzeru awo antchito.

Mwana sangakhale popanda chikondi. Ana ambiri ali okonzeka umataya chikondi kubwerera. "

Nkofunika kuzindikira kuti mwana aliyense amene waphunzira kuyenda ndi kuyankhula, mwina Chofunika akufuna kukhala zothandiza. Yesetsani kumpatsa zing'onozing'ono komanso mmene kukhazikitsa iwo. Mwina kukonza nyumba, kutenga zinyalala, kutsuka galimoto, kapena kujambula mpanda mu dziko. Main amasonyeza bwanji kuchita izo, ndi kumachita izo bwino pamodzi, kusonyeza ndi kuwauza chifukwa ndi zimene mukuchita. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, mwana wanu kuchita nokha.

Komanso, nthawi zina, ana ndikufuna kuthandiza banja la luso lake, koma simukudziwa kuti adzakhala kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwana amakonda kuvina kapena utoto. Inu kumusangalatsa, ngati inu kukamufunsa kuti ndikusonyezeni inu kuvina latsopano. Kapena kumuuza kuti mulibe zithunzi zokwanira pa makoma azikongoletsa chipinda, ndipo ntchito yake idzakhala kwambiri mwa malo. Kotero kuti inu mumvetsa osati wosangalala ndi maluso a mwanayo, komanso bwenzi labwino. Ndipo Chofunika, inu kupanga zofunika kuti munthu wamkulu makhalidwe anthu: khama, chilakolako ndi luso zimathandiza gulu kuti umakuchirikiza.