Kwa Mbali kholo: nyemba. Kodi kulemba kuyankha makolo

kwa kholo khalidwe - ndi chikalata zofunika ndi makhalidwe umoyo maganizo a mayi kapena bambo mu mawu mmene awo pa maphunziro a mwanayo.

Pogwira ntchito bwino, mpweya maganizo m'banja - zonsezi kumakhudzanso chitukuko cha achinyamata. N'chifukwa chake chizindikiro chokwanira cha makhalidwe amenewa amathandiza kumvetsa mmene zosowa za mwanayo ali zagwiridwa ndi ngati makolo kulimbana ndi udindo wawo wonse.

khalidwe la Kodi

Mbali pa kholo ndi mwana analengedwa mu mawonekedwe mwachilungamo free, koma pali ena deta kuti ayenera chofunika kuti anagonjera. Njirazi ndi monga:

• deta pa kholo ndi (dzina, tsiku lobadwa, jenda ndi ntchito);
• udindo thanzi (kukhalapo kapena kusapezeka kwa matenda zimene zimakhudza ntchito anthu kapena bwanji maganizo umoyo wa m'banja);
• Kuphedwa kwa ntchito chuma (pamaso pa ndalama okhazikika, mmene ndalama za banja lonse);
• makhalidwe maganizo ndi makhalidwe kulera ana.

Makolo wophunzira khalidwe ayenera kusonyeza mmene mtundu awo ntchito ndi akafuna m'banja amakhudza chitukuko mwana, ndi kupereka mfundo za moyo kapena banja mavuto.

Makhalidwe chikhalidwe cha kholo la

Zochita za makolo, ndi chitsanzo cha zomwe anapereka m'nkhani ino, zikhazikitsidwe deta pa makolo okha ndipo amasonyeza amene siyana izi zingakhale monga banja:

• malinga ndi dongosolo - wathunthu / chosakwanira banja, ndi mfundo chifukwa chake palibe mmodzi wa makolo, ngati pali chiyanjano ndi iye;
• kuchokera zakuthupi - banja ndi mkulu / sing'anga / otsika chuma chambiri. Nkofunika kudziwa mtundu wa ntchito ya makolo ndi kutengapo mbali yake m'nkhaniyo labwino;
• pa kukhazikika chikhalidwe ndi malamulo a banja - bata chikhalidwe / Kusakhazikika kwa banja ndi wathanzi / ovutika kuthekera maphunziro (mutchule zimayambitsa zinthuzo);
• mtundu wa mabwenzi - zogwirizana, nkhondo, kusokonekera.

Psychological makhalidwe a makolo

Pofotokoza makhalidwe maganizo a makolo kuti zimakhudza maphunziro a mwana, ayenera kulabadira otsatirawa:

• phindu lathu (ziti pa moyo patsogolo makolo a);
• chikhalidwe kulankhulana ndi mwana (authoritarian, demokalase, owolowa manja);
• akafuna kanthu mukakhala mikangano (chiwawa, kungololera kupeŵa mikangano);
• ntchito ya kuwalimbikitsa mwana, mlingo chidwi kwa iwo;
• makhalidwe khalidwe la kholo.

Psychological makhalidwe kholo ayenera kusonyeza mwana kuti mumtima womasuka mu banja, amene amapereka chitsanzo cha khalidwe la bambo kapena mayi wa mwanayo, momwe kusinthika kwa makhalidwe a anthu m'banja.

Nthawi zina, si anapatsidwa khalidwe abwino

Makhalidwe a makolo ndi zabwino, monga ulamuliro, sakhoza kukhala kukachitika kuti pali zizindikiro za zochitika ambiri chowawa mu moyo wa banja:

1. Mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo wa makolo. Pankhaniyi, tisaiwale monga mwana akukumana vutoli: Kodi akukumana ndi mantha ndi manyazi, monga chimakhudza zimene dera la moyo sikokwanira akuyendera.
2. mabanja akuluakulu imene makolo alibe chikhumbo kusamalira ana.
3. Low ndalama.
4. Pamaso pa matenda amisala ku kholo limodzi kapena onse.
5. mkangano woopsa banja - nkhanza pakati pa makolo kapena kwa mwana, banja mu siteji chilekano.
6. Makolo ndi chiphunzitso otsika kulemba. Pankhaniyi, tisaiwale, zomwe dera la moyo akuvutika, ngati iye akusonyeza zizindikiro za kunyalanyaza pedagogical.

Makolo khalidwe abwino

Zabwino poyankha ingaoneke monga izi:

Kaperekedwe mayi ... (wophunzira dzina)

wophunzira kalasi 8b, ... (dzina la sukulu) ... chaka cha kubadwa (wophunzira)

akukhala pa ... (adiresi).

Amayi ... (dzina mayi) ... anabadwa mu 2015, ali pa umayi tchuthi kusamalira mwana (mng'ono ... (dzina wophunzira)). Education - dokotala wamano, iye anayesetsa kuti atuluke mu mzinda mano chipatala nambala 2.

Banja uli wathunthu, amakhala pa: ... (e), mu nyumba ziwiri kuchipinda. Zofunika ndi nyumba malawi zogwira mtima, banja, tinganene kuti khola pankhaniyi, ndi ndalama pafupifupi. Cash chitetezo ntchito pakadali amachita bambo, (dzina).

... (dzina labambo mayi) - wanzeru, bata, chikhulupiriro mkazi. Iye amagwira ntchito mwachangu angamulerere ana, kuonera opambana akulu, moyo wawo, chakudya, zovala. Mwakhama chidwi ndi moyo wa mwana wake kusukulu, kumuthandiza makalasi, ntchito monga thandizo makhalidwe abwino a m'banja. Mosamala mtima, kupeza kukondera njira ndipo limaphunzitsa mwana.

... (dzina labambo wa mwana) akufotokozera mayi mwachikondi komanso mwaulemu. Nthawi zonse bwino kuyang'ana, si zotsutsana, bata.

... (dzina, mayi dzina lapakati) Maziko a kalembedwe demokalase kulankhulana ndi maphunziro a ana. Banja tinganene kuti wosatsutsana, lotseguka, ndi omveka bwino chikhalidwe.

Mapangidwe ali pa malo a akumufuna.

Date.

Anasaina.

pa khalidwe zoipa kholo la

The makhalidwe oipa wapangidwa motere:

Atate ... Mbali (wophunzira dzina)

Wophunzira Maphunziro 6a, ... (dzina la sukulu), anabadwa mu ...

(Wophunzira), akukhala pa ... (adiresi).

(Dzina Atate) ... chaka cha kubadwa, - lova ali ndi sekondale.

Makolo banja. Kuwonjezera bambo ake, ndi wophunzira anthu agogo ... (dzina agogo a) ... anabadwa pensioner. Amayi ... (dzina wophunzira) kupondeleza ufulu makolo m'ndende. Banja amakhala ndi situdiyo nyumba wokwatibwa ndi agogo ake. osauka - osauka: Nyumba n'zofunika kukonzedwa, Kutentha ndi wolemala, mwana alibe malo kuchita. malo Financial wa banja ndi osauka, kukhala ndi agogo penshioni ndi osakhalitsa ulova bambo. The mwana zambiri dines ku sukulu, amavala zovala si nyengo yoyenera.

... (dzina ndi patronymic a atate) ali chidakwa, angalerere mwana ameneyo. Pa mfundo imeneyi, mbiriyakale banja la nkhanza ndi nkhondo bambo amayambira, ndi kuliika poyerekezera ndi mwana wake. Chidwi mu moyo wa mwana palibe, pa nyengo ya bambo chidziletso. Nthawi zambiri, iye (bambo), yocheza ndi anzawo, kuonera TV, kapena sizimawoneka kunyumba kwa nthawi yaitali. Kuchokela pamawu a aphunzitsi Kodi samva, izo khalidwe mosaganizira ena ndi mwano.

Kutisamalira zoweta mwana chinkhoswe agogo. Nayenso amagwira ntchito yophunzitsa, oyang'anira patsogolo maphunziro mnyamatayo.

Choncho, zimagawidwa monga mmphepete. Mwana si kupeza mokwanira thandizo, kukula mu maganizo osakhazikika, nkhondo ndi banja kuchita chiwawa. Chonde akatenge pokambirana nkhani za kulandidwa ... (dzina bambo) ufulu makolo ndi conferring ufulu m'ndende za mwanayo kwa agogo, ... (dzina la agogo) ndi chakudya cha chithandizo.

Mapangidwe ali pa malo a akumufuna.

Date.

Anasaina.

Ongopangidwa ndi mbali pa kulandira makolo ake kui. Iwo kwenikweni zikusonyeza kuti uzigwirizana ndi ntchito zimene anapatsidwa.