Kutalika kwazing'ono: momwe mungakhalire nawo

Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe sitingakonde. Kusakhutitsidwa uku kungakhudze dziko lonse lapansi komanso ife eni. Wina amadandaula za kulemetsa kwakukulu, wina samapuma mphuno pamaso, ndipo wina sangamve munthu wathanzi chifukwa cha kukula kwake.

Anthu otsika kwambiri nthawi zambiri amakhala ovuta. Ambiri a iwo (makamaka amuna) akudziyendetsa okha m'khola, zomwe sizidzakhala zovuta kutuluka. Inde, anthu a mcheling'ono amakumana ndi mavuto ambiri m'moyo. Kwa atsikana, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta zapakhomo, ndipo muzogonana kwambiri ndizovuta kwambiri. Kukula pang'ono kungayambitse munthu kuchoka pa moyo.

Kodi n'zotheka kuwonjezera kukula?

Pa intaneti, mungapeze machitidwe osiyanasiyana, zochitika, zovuta, zomwe zingakupangitseni kukhala chimphona mu masiku angapo. Koma kodi n'zotheka kukhulupirira zonsezi? Chowonadi ndi chakuti zambiri zazomwezi ndizosamveka. Ndikhulupirire, zozizwitsa sizichitika, ndipo zotsatira zake zimangopindula ndi khama lalikulu.

Mukhoza kusankha machitidwe omwe mungathe kukonza. Sikophweka kuchita izi popanda kuthandizidwa ndi mphunzitsi wapamwamba.

Kuchita bwino kumadalira nthawi yomwe mwasankha kuthana ndi vutoli. Kodi ndinu wachinyamata? Wodabwitsa! Muli ndi mwayi wokhala ngati wina aliyense. Kwa akulu, komabe mwayi woterewu ndi wochepa kwambiri.

Kutalika kwazing'ono: amuna ndi akazi.

Pambuyo pake munthu amayamba kudzifufuza yekha, akuwulula muzovuta zazikulu. Pambuyo poyang'ana koyamba, iye adzapeza chinachake, chifukwa chake moyo wake sunayambe kugwira ntchito. Inde, chifukwa ichi nthawi zambiri zimapangidwira ndipo zimayenera kungolingalira zofooka za mkati.

Amuna aang'ono, monga lamulo, amavuta kwambiri. Zolephereka nthawi zonse polankhulana ndi atsikana, kuyanjana ndi anthu zimawapangitsa kukhala omasuka ndi osatetezeka mwaokha.

Mavuto awo onse sali kukula pang'ono, koma chifukwa chakuti iwo, chifukwa cha zifukwa zawo, amakhumudwitsidwa mwa iwo okha. Anthu anzeru amadziwa kuti mkati mwawo ndikofunika, osati maonekedwe. Kukhoza kudziwonetsera nokha ndi sayansi yowopsya, koma pokhala ndi nzeru, ngakhale munthu wochepa thupi akhoza kukwaniritsa nsonga.

Zonse zokhudzana ndi kudzizindikira. Kumbukirani Napoleon. Kukula kochepa kunamulepheretsa kukhala nthano. Komanso, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti mfumu inagonjetsa ukulu wake chifukwa cha kukula kwakukulu. Kodi izi zinachitika bwanji? Zonse zimamveka: pokhala osakhutira ndi iye mwini, adayamba kusintha mkati mwake. Ndi zophweka!

Akazi ndi dongosolo la kukula kopanda phindu pa kukula. Amuna onga iwo ndi ena. Kodi mulibe mavuto pano? Tsoka ilo, iwo aliponso. Chowonadi ndi chakuti sikuti aliyense ali wokonzeka kutenga mozama mabwana a msinkhu wochepa. Inde, kwa amayi ena izi ndi tsoka lalikulu.

Moyo ndi waufupi.

Inde, mbiri yakale imadziwa zitsanzo zambiri za kuti anthu aang'ono anafika pamtunda waukulu. Chikhumbo chotsimikizira kuti ali ndi udindo wapamwamba nthawi zambiri amawatsogolera kuchita zoopsa, zomwe anthu ena sakanatha kupita.

Kodi zovuta zimapangitsa munthu kupita patsogolo, mosasamala kanthu za mavuto? Yankho ndilo inde. Chowonadi ndi chakuti anthu ena ochepa omwe amakula amadziwa kuti mwayi wawo wopambana siwopambana kwambiri, komanso kuti akhoza kukwaniritsa chikondi ndi ulemu ngati amangokhalira kuchita chinachake. Kudziletsa mwakhama ndi maloto okondedwa kumawathandiza kuti akwaniritse zonse zomwe akufuna.

Musaiwale kuti khalidweli limapangidwa ndi zochitika zakunja, ndipo munthu amene amamanga zinthu zonse, sangazidzike yekha.

Kukula pang'ono si chifukwa chachisoni. Ngati mukufuna, mungathe kutsimikizira kuti ndipamwamba kuposa zolinga zingapo nthawi imodzi.