Kunyengerera ndi umunthu wosasinthasintha

Kulosera ngati umunthu wa umunthu - chizoloŵezi chofuna zopempha zazikulu kwa wina aliyense, chirichonse, osakhutira ndi zomwe uli nazo.

Kudzinyenga nokha ndi chimodzi mwa mitundu yambiri yowonetsera kudzikuza. Munthu akhoza kunena kuti wangwiro ndi wopanda pake. Ndipo mu izi ndi zina zotero, kudziletsa kwake kumatanthawuza chisangalalo cha kunyada. Mkazi amabwera kudzaulula ndikumuuza: O! Ndine wagwa kwambiri mwa akazi onse. Ogwa kwambiri! Ndipo amamva poyankha kuti: Iwe siwe wagwa kwambiri. Iwe wagwa!

         Kuvuta kumvetsetsa kudzikuza monga khalidwe la munthu kumalongosola ndikuti zimadziwonekera mosiyana ndi anthu mwa ubwino, chilakolako ndi umbuli. Choncho zifukwa zosiyana kwambiri ndi zochitika za anthu omwe ali ndi chidziwitso chodziwika. Munthu wokoma mtima, yemwe umoyo wake umakhala ndi kudzipereka kwake kwa anthu, adzati: "Kulosera ndiko kusakhala kwachisomo!" Kukoma mtima kwa iye ndi maziko a mfundo. Kuchokera pamenepo, imayesa malingaliro ndi zochita zake. Munthu wodalitsika anganene kuti munthu sangapeze chimwemwe mwa kukwaniritsa zolinga zakuthupi. Iye amayembekezera kukhumudwa kapena mwamsanga, chilakolako chakuthupi chitangokwaniritsidwa, kapena kumapeto kwa moyo, akale, wofooka ndipo palibe amene akusowa.

Chimwemwe sichidalira mipando, magalimoto, quad, nyumba, ma yachts ndi akaunti za banki. Chimwemwe ndi cha uzimu, chimakhala m "malo olankhulana mozama, osadzikonda, chikondi, komanso osati pazinthu zokhutiritsa zokhumba zake. Kufunafuna zakuthupi pazinthu zakuthupi ndizosamveka, momwe tingachitire kafukufuku wokhudzana ndi kukhala woyera pakati pa mahule. Miliyaliyumuyo akuwonabe kukhala wonyada kwa ana ndi achibale pamutu wake. Iwo, nawonso, ali ndi zonena zawo, zoyenera zawo. Iwo amaganiza kuti: "Kungakhale kofulumira kukamatira zikhomo, satana wakale." Palibe chikondi, kuwona mtima ndi kukoma mtima powonekera, koma mukufuna kuti mukhale okondedwa, osati zomera zanu ndi steamboats. Mmodzi wa mabiliyoni ambiri omwe kale anali okalamba anati: "Ndinagwiritsa ntchito ndalama zokwana madola mamiliyoni asanu pa maluwa kwa akazi. Ndinawononga ndalama zonse. "

Kunyada kwa makolo kumakhala koopsa kwa zomwe ana amakwaniritsa. Munthu wabwino, kulera mwana, amaganizira kaye kaye za kufotokoza cholinga chake, kupeza gawo la moyo, pambuyo pa luso la mwanayo. Asanu ndi awiri samamuvutitsa kwambiri. Amamvetsa kuti nkofunika kuphunzitsa mwanayo mwauzimu, osati kudziwitsa. Ngati mukulitsa makhalidwe abwino a munthu mwa iye , adzalandira chiyeneretso nthawi zonse akapeza chidwi chake pantchito ina. Munthu wodalitsika amayang'ana mwana, akuyesera kupeza "zest", zomwe zidzatsimikiziridwa kuti zikupita patsogolo. Ngati pakulera mwanayo - troychnik adapeza makhalidwe ngati munthu monga udindo, cholinga, khama, chipiriro, kulimbikira komanso kulimbikira, adzalandira mwamsanga ntchito zamalonda mu bizinesi yomwe amamukonda. Panthawi yomweyi, wophunzira wabwino kwambiri, woponderezedwa ndi zomwe makolo ake amafuna, zomwe amakhulupirira, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zotetezeka ndipo sizichita zomwe iyeyo akuchita. Chifukwa chake, palibe chomwe chimapindula, koma chimangobwera chifukwa chachinsinsi chosankhidwa bwino.

Kunyada kwa makolo kumapangitsa kuti amvetsetse chimwemwe. Akatswiri ambiri ojambula nyimbo ndi abambo ambuye anati: "Iwe udzakhala loya, ngati ine!" - "Bambo, koma sindikufuna. Ndikufuna kukhala ... "-" Ayi! Iwe udzakhala loya, ndi mfundo. Ndikukutumizirani ku England. Mvetserani kwa Adadi - mudzakhala ndi moyo. " Makolo omwe amatsatira chikhumbo chokhumba cha chisangalalo, khulupirirani kuti chinthu chachikulu ndicho kumupatsa mwana maphunziro apamwamba. Mutumizeni ku dziko linalake. Zaka zingapo pambuyo pake, munthu wosiyana kwambiri amabwera kwa makolo ochilengedwe. Iwo sanamulenge iye, sanalankhulane naye iye mwauzimu, sanaike moyo wake ndi mtima wake mwa iye. Anakhala ndalama za ndalama - mtengo umene umabweretsa ndalama zambiri. Sakonda makolo ake, amanyoza kapena amadana ndi dziko lawo. Chirichonse apa ndi chachilendo komanso chonyansa.

Tiye tiwone kuti makolo anakonza mwana wawo pamalo otentha. Koma ngati ali ndi khalidwe loipa, amatha kugonana ndi akuluakulu ake ndi anzake pa ntchito iliyonse. Kusonyeza kusakhulupirika ndi kusagwirizana, adzaonetsetsa kuti aliyense ali wolondola, kudula chiberekero cha chikhulupiliro, kutsutsa akuluakulu ndi kuchititsa manyazi akuluakuluwo. Nthawi zonse amakwiya komanso amakwiya, sangathe kutsogolera anthu. Ngakhale maphunziro apamwamba, kapangidwe kake, monga kachitidwe kachitidwe kameneka, kakuyesa ngati chinthu chovulaza. Aphunzitsi ogwira ntchito akusankha osakhala akatswiri, koma anthu omwe ali ndi makhalidwe abwino. Amadziŵa kuti adzalandira luso mwaluso chifukwa cha khalidwe lawo. Ndicho chifukwa chake ana amafunikira kupatsidwa chikhalidwe chaumulungu mofanana ndi chidziwitso, ndipo osati kungolemba mwambo wokhala ndi zambiri zambiri zomwe sizikhala chidziwitso chenicheni.

Mwamuna mwa chilakolako amasonyeza mlingo wa zomwe akunena kupyolera muzovuta za ntchito zomwe wapatsidwa. Ngati "Ndikufuna" ndi "Ndikukhoza" ndi mabwenzi, ndiye kuti ndi wofuna kwambiri komanso wodalirika. Kawirikawiri, kuchuluka kwa zomwe anthu akunena mwachidwi zimatsimikiziridwa ndi kupambana kapena kulephera kuthana ndi mavuto omwe awonapo: kupambana kumasankha kusankha ntchito zovuta (kuwonjezeka pazomwe zanenedwa), zolephera - zosiyana, ndi zosavuta. Anthu ambiri sakufuna kupambana, koma kupewa kulephera.

Kusatsimikizika monga khalidwe la munthu ndiko kukwanitsa kusapanga zofuna zazikulu kwa wina aliyense, chirichonse, kukhala wokhutira ndi zomwe uli nazo.

Ngamila yodabwitsa bwanji, koma iye anazunzidwa ndi kutentha kwa makumi asanu. Nthawi zambiri amayenda kudutsa m'chipululu ndipo abulu akuthamanga kukakumana naye akukwera. Ngamila imamufunsa: - N'chifukwa chiyani ukuthawa, chifukwa kutentha ndi chiyani? - Inde, ndimathamanga, ndipo mphepo imandiwombera ndipo sikutentha kwambiri. Ngamila idalingalira ndi momwe idamwa ... Ndipo buluyo anathamanga ndipo adawona a Bediouni akuyima pambali mwa chipululu. Bulu amayandikira mmodzi wa iwo ndikufunsa kuti: "Chinachitika ndi chiani?" Ndipo a Bedouin amayankha: - Inde, apa, ngamira yatenga mazira!

Mwadzidzidzi inu mukufuna kuti mufikire kwa munthu yemwe ali wodzichepetsa kwa ena ndi kudzipanikiza yekha. Munthu wodalirika. Mukumva kuti pali kukoma mtima, kuphweka ndi choonadi mmenemo, mumamvetsetsa kuti munthu sali wokondwa ndi osakhutira, momwe amaganizira amaganiza zolakwika zokhudzana ndi kukhudzika ndi kutsutsidwa kwa ena.

Kukhumba kwa anthu ena ndi chimodzi mwa zithunzi zomwe zagwidwa ndi chifundo. Kusadziwika sikuli kofanana ndi kudzikweza, kumatenga moyo wamba, koma mopanda malire, kupitirira malipiro, chikhululukiro cha machimo ndi chikhululukiro kwa iwo eni. Iye ndi wachilendo kwa kunyansa kwa thupi lake. Pochita zimenezi, kudzichepetsa kumaphatikizapo mphamvu kuti zichite bwino pa moyo ndi maganizo a anthu ena. Munthu wodzichepetsa yekha anazindikira momwe kulili kovuta kukhala ndi ulemu mwa iye mwini ndi kuti malo osiyidwa bwino ndi malingaliro oipa. Izi zimatenga nthawi ndipo, chofunikira kwambiri, kumvetsetsa ndi malingaliro a chimwemwe cha chimwemwe. Chifukwa chake, amanyalanyaza zolakwa za ena. Aliyense angamvere chifundo kwa munthu yemwe amakomera mokoma mtima kumtima wake wonse wa malingaliro, kumvetsetsa kumatanthauza chikhalidwe chake chamkati. Kuphatikizanso, ena monga odzichepetsa ku zikhalidwe za anthu moyo nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse okondwa, okondwa, okondwa ndi osangalala.

Phindu lalikulu la kukhala wodzichepetsa ndi kusowa kwa zovuta zomwe zimabweretsa - kudziletsa. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna wolemekezeka anakwatiwa ndipo, patapita kanthawi, adawona chizoloŵezi choyambitsa matenda, monga kuchokera kumtima wachimwemwe nanny mkazi wake amakhala wolakalaka, wonyenga komanso wonyansa. Iye samveka alamu, akunena yekha kuti mkaziyo ndi wochokera kwa Mulungu ndipo akupitiriza kuona makhalidwe ake abwino. Chifukwa munthu, yemwe ndi wodzichepetsa kwa anthu ena, ali ndi tanthawuzo zabwino, amafuna kuti asinthe yekha. Amamvetsa kuti: "Ngati sindingathe kuphunzitsa mkazi wanga kuti azichita bwino ndi ine, sangakhale wosangalala. Ndimasintha, idzasintha. "

Chitsanzo chodzichepetsa cha mtsogoleri ndi Mtsogoleri wa Indian Independence Movement, Mahatma Gandhi. Wojambula Paulo Gauguin adachokera ku Tahiti kwa zaka 53, kumene ali ndi zovuta zachilendo kuti adziwe zojambula. Banja la Curie linapanga zinthu zawo zamtengo wapatali m'khola ndi denga lokwera. Iwo, mwachibadwa, angafune kukhala ndi labotale yabwino yokwanira, koma chifukwa cha kusowa kwabwinoko, adakhutitsidwa ndi zoyipa kwambiri. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kudzichepetsa ndikunama pa nkhani ya psychology ya umphaŵi. Kusatsimikizika si kukana chuma, ndiko kuthekera ku cholinga chake, ngakhale kusakhala kovomerezeka. Kudzitetezera ndi "mfumu yapamwamba". Wopanda ulemu ndi Diogenes mu mbiya, yemwe, powona mnyamata akumwa m'manja mwake, anataya chikho chake ndi mawu akuti: "Mwanayo wandiposa ine mosadzichepetsa."

Kusadziwika ndikumangirira nokha ndi kulekerera ena. Kusonyeza kudziletsa ndi kulingalira pochita ndi anthu, kudzichepetsa kwa anthu ndi kofiira m'maso mwawo ndi mawu abwino. Ichi ndi chowonadi, chifukwa kuona anthu kukhala abwino, kuchita mogwirizana ndi chikumbumtima ndi kudzifunira nokha, kudzichepetsa kumapita mu gulu ndi olemekezeka.

Zosamveka zimamvetsetsa malamulo a moyo. Mudziko lino palibe chowopsa. Lamulo lachitsulo la chilengedwe - lamulo lazifukwa ndi zotsatira sizikhalanso zochitika m'mbali iliyonse ya moyo. Pali chifukwa cha kufufuza kulikonse. Munthu wosadziwika amadziwa kuti akukhala m'dziko lino, mu banja lino, ndipo zonse sizowopsa. Mkhalidwe wamasiku ano wa chidziwitso ndi dziko lonse umamukakamiza kuti azikhala muzinthu izi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti amakhala ndi anthu komanso momwe akuyenera. Malingaliro adzasulidwa, kukoma kwake kwa chisangalalo chidzasintha, ndipo, ngati ngati ndi matsenga, moyo udzasintha. Padzakhala abwenzi olingana m'deralo, zokhumba zatsopano zidzatuluka. Makhalidwe abwino amakhulupirira kuti mgwirizano wa dziko lapansi umagwirizanitsa, ndikutsatira malamulo a chilengedwe chonse ndipo motsimikiza kuti adzalandira kuchokera ku moyo moyenera monga momwe akuyenera.