Kodi kuti upeze kusudzulana?

Monga ulamuliro, zinthu pamene sitimayo banja likumira, anthu amavutika kupirira maganizo. Komanso, anthu ochepa mukudziwa zimene amalamulira kutenga malamulo ndondomeko ya chilekaniro. Pezani njira kwambiri surefire kuthetsa vuto zovuta kuthandiza loya akatswiri ndi Nkhaniyi ikufotokoza mbali zina zokhudza Kalembera ndipo amaloledwa m'zimenezi kusudzulana.

Chophweka njira formalize chimaswa ubwenzi ndi akaonekere kwa bungwe kaundula. Kodi kusokoneza moyo wa ana kapena anthu sangathe kugwirizana pa nsoka wa chuma, bwalo akadandaule kunena kwa nchito yanyumba ukwati.

Ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi malo wogawanika, analibe nthawi moyo olowa ndi ana kapena ana awo okula, chilekaniro akazi kale kulandira popanda wofiira tepi zosafunika mu bungwe lomweli kuti akalembetse ukwati. Njira mwachizolowezi wochita ndi akazi wakale ichitikire anatumikira ntchito chilekano, chitsanzo cha amene ali pa Mlembi wa chigawo kaundula. Pasanathe mwezi kuchokera ku kuzipeleka kwa ntchito, akale mwamuna ndi mkazi afike kachiwiri ndi kutsimikizira wanu lingaliro. M'buku kaundula adzapanga kulowa yofanana, ndipo aliyense adzalandira buku la chilekaniro.

Komabe nthawi zina ngakhale ambiri ooneka ngati zinthu yosavuta mavuto mosayembekezereka. Mwachitsanzo, mmodzi wa akazi a, wolalata kufotokoza chilolezo awo chisudzulo Ndipotu kumbali ku zolembalemba boma. Pankhaniyi, popanda alowererepo pa bwalo sangachite.

The suti chilekano - kulembetsa

Ngati simuli wazamalamulo, kuti akapereke bwino zikalata zonse ndi kusunga nthawi, ndi bwino foni loya. Iye adzatiuza za peculiarities wa ndondomeko maukwati vuto lanu munthu ndi adzatithandiza kulemba suti wabwino chilekano, ndi chitsanzo cha zomwe zili ndi malangizo aliwonse malamulo. Nkofunika kudziwa malo okhala a mkazi pa nthawi ya Kutengera. An kanthu kuti banja lili ulamuliro dera lawo, kutanthauza kuti ayenera kupezeka m'nyumba ya chigawo imene wozengedwa amakhala. Ngakhale pali zinthu zapadera, podziwa kuti malamulo amalola kupala mapepala chilekano pa malo okhala odandaula ndi. Mwachitsanzo: wozengedwayu analamulidwa zoposa zitatu m'ndende zaka kapena anapeza yawo, ndi odandaula wokhala ana aang'ono, komanso nthawi zina ena. Ngati banja anatha kugwirizana pa aliyense wa iwo ana adzakhala m'tsogolo ndipo pa dongosolo la malipiro malipilo, iwo ali ndi ufulu kupeleka mlandu ku khoti kuti banja, komanso pangano olembedwa pa ndondomeko ya kulankhulana ndi mwana. Chotero pangano ayenera formalized choncho kholo limodzi akukayikira kuti pambuyo pa banja, sati zizipita ku ndikukhazikitsa ufulu wake malamulo makolo. Chotero chikalata akhoza kupangidwa mu ndondomeko sanali milandu ndi notarized. Ngati mawu a pangano sati anaphedwa pamene lithe, n'zotheka kukwaniritsa kugwilizana kudzera m'makhoti.

Nanga bwanji ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi safuna kusudzulana?

Osati nthawi zonse chokhumba kuti asiye banja ndicho. Popeza kanthawi atakambirana chilekano amanena kuti banja akhoza unayendera ntchito unilaterally. Poona Zikatero, khoti ayenera kukhutira kuti kupitiriza ndi moyo olowa kwenikweni zosatheka, poganizira zofuna za mwamuna osati ndi mkazi, koma ana Choyamba. Mogwirizana zinthu zonse, khoti akhoza kuthetsa ukwati, kulepheletsa Kuthi kuti cholinga cha chiyanjanitso cha akazi, kapena kukana chonena.