Kodi kudalitsa mwana pamaso pa ukwati - tiyeni tipite kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo m'banja losangalala

mwana dalitso pamaso pa ukwati - ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zochitika yosangalatsa kwa amayi ndi abambo. Aliyense miyambo yosiyanasiyana kuchita mwambo, koma onse ayenera analankhula mawu otani nalo moyo wautali m'banja. Mayi aliyense akudzifunsa funso mmene adalitse mwana pamaso pa ukwati. Mu Chikhristu, pali miyambo wapadera ndi malamulo a katchulidwe ka mawu ofunika kwa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. M'pofunika Pre-kugula chizindikirochi mu mpingo, koma anabwera ndi munthu heirloom banja, limene likupezeka nyumba. Pambuyo pa chikondwerero m'nyumba ya latsopanolo nkhope iyi woyera ngati chithumwa kwa iwo moyo wonse.

Pali milandu pamene makolo a mkwati ndi mkwatibwi pamodzi kutenga chizindikiro ndipo anachipereka icho kwa chigonjetso wamng'ono. Nkofunika kudziwa mmene kudalitsa mwana pamaso pa ukwati, ngati akukhulupirira kuti ndi mawu kutchulidwa zimatengera moyo wa banja wamng'ono. Kuperekezedwa mtsikana potsanzikana pokhapokha mwamuna wake watsogolo adzalipira dipo ndi kupirira mayesero onse. Pamene mkwati anapita mavuto onse anafuna kuti iye panjira kwa mkwatibwi wake wokondedwa ndipo anasonyeza alendo, makolo akhoza kundiuza olimbikitsa awo ndi mawu ofunika kwa ana.

Makolo ambiri safuna kulankhula pa zopempha zonse. Kodi kukhala Nanga kudalitsa mwana pamaso pa ukwati mu nkhani iyi? Mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ali asamangokhala chipinda ndi kunena mawu okha pamaso pa anthu apamtima. bwino, ngati mu chipinda chino adzakhala godparents bambo ndi mayi a mkwatibwi. Kumbukirani kuti pempho ayenera kutchulidwa mwana wake osati kokha, komanso mwamuna wake watsogolo chifukwa posachedwapa amakhala mmodzi.

Pamene anthu onse anasonkhana, mungathe kuyamba. Kulimba angapo kutsogolo kwa makolo awo, chizindikiro akutembenukira nkhope aang'ono, kuti nthawi ili mawu ofunika kwambiri zimalankhulidwa. Kumene, muyenera Pre-kuganizira mozama zimene kunena pa nthawi ino zosangalatsa akudalitseni mwana pamaso pa ukwati ayenera kukhala zofuna kwambiri wosaiwalika wa chimwemwe ndi chikondi.

Pambuyo mawu analankhula kufunika katatu chizindikiro mtanda akutembenukira mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Lililonse mayi adziŵe kudalitsa ukwati wa mwana wake, kapena cholakalaka mwana wake wamkazi, pakuti mawu awa ali amakumbukira achinyamata moyo, ndipo mwinamwake ndi malankhulidwe chomwecho, chizindikiro chomwecho adzakhala nawo mu moyo m'banja la ana awo. mawu Akadzauzidwa pambuyo mnyamata ndi mtsikana kumpsompsona zithunzi ndi mitanda.

Dziwani kuti makolo akhoza kulankhula mawu a nalo nkhope wamng'ono kutsogolo kuti kuyambira ukwati wake. Pankhaniyi, chizindikiro cha madalitso a ang'ono ndi moyo wawo pyakufunika, chifukwa makolo nthawi zonse kumathandiza yaikulu angamulerere ana, ndipo atakwatirana komanso kupitiriza kuwathandiza mu nthawi zovuta. mayi mkwatibwi ayenera nkhope ya Dona Wathu Kazan, ndi mayi a mkwati - nkhope ya Khristu Mpulumutsiyo. Akukhulupirira kuti maukwati, akaidi pa tsiku la Namwali Wodalitsidwa Mary, kwambiri wangwiro mpaka kalekale. Chimwemwe wamng'ono!