"Bukuli, lomwe si": wowerenga ndemanga

Masiku ano, pali mabuku ambiri ndi maphunziro kukula munthu ndi mapulogalamu kudziletsa kusintha. Onsewo ali abwino chifukwa chakuti n'zotheka kupeza mtendere wa mumtima, kubwezeretsa mkati okhulupirika ndi mgwirizano.

Wotchuka wolemba, yoperekedwa kwa gulu la akatswiri a maganizo, ndi Alex Novak. "Buku sali," ndemanga za linandidabwitsa, chimachititsa munthu ndikuganiza, nthawi yosanthula moyo wawo, amayesetsa zotsatira konkire. Taganizirani mayankho a anthu amene anali wokhoza kuchita chiphunzitso ophweka koma chidwi kuti anauza wolemba.

"Bukuli, lomwe si": ndemanga osangalala

Alex Novak amatipatsa maola ochepa kusiya ndi kulingalira kumene ife tikupita. Kodi ife tikuyandikira loto lake, kapena akumayesetsa kutali kwa izo? Ndi zodabwitsa, koma anthu ambiri ali kwenikweni mantha kutsatira malamulo awo ndipo n'komwe za zilakolako zawo, amene akhoza kuwathandiza kusintha makhalidwe awo khalidwe.

Kutchuka yaikulu m'bukuli ndi chifukwa chakuti anthu ambiri lero amafuna kukhala opambana, iwo amakhala kuti zikule bwino. Iwo akufuna kufotokoza mokwanira zomwenso ake, pazipita kuzindikira kuthekera chibadidwe chikhalidwe.

Amadziwika kuti kwenikweni si kosavuta monga izo zikuwoneka. Muyenera sichingadzakhoze kutisiyanitsa zofunika kuchokera moperewera, kuti kwambiri bungwe, kukhala wodzikuza. Ndipo anthu ena pa zaka silingathe kusuntha. Ndipo owerenga buku lapadera kwambiri kuti kabukuka kakuthandizani iwo mu zovuta kwambiri pa moyo, pamene zinkaoneka kuti palibe angathe kudzudzulidwa.

chikumbumtima mwana

wolemba zikutsindika mfundo yakuti sibwino kuwononga mphatso yopatulika chopatsidwa ndi Mulungu. Owerenga nkhani iyi mmene iwo akhoza kukhulupirira kuti mwana zonse akutembenukira momasuka ndi mosavuta, ndipo akula Zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti ndiphunzire.

Chifukwa chiri mu malingaliro ako: mwanayo kuposa lotseguka kwa kumvetsa dziko kunja, izo zonse chidwi. Akuluakulu nthawi zambiri omvera olakwika ndipo kawirikawiri amamva mawu awo mkati analandira anthu. Kukula, ife, mwatsoka, iwalani za zomwe Ine ndinalota patsogolo, ndipo opani kupitiriza kumanga mapulani odzitukumula.

Onani kuti mwana wamng'ono nthawi zonse amadziwa chimene iye akufuna. Iye si lofanana kuganiza awo ndipo si atengere maganizo a ena. Monga mwana, aliyense zosavuta kulota, chifukwa pali chikhulupiriro mu mtsinje zonse bwino. Munthu akhoza kungowauzira wolera ana pozungulira zimaonekeratu kuti moyo kukhumbira awo, ndipo iwo ali kwenikweni kwambiri chenicheni. Akufika kukhwima chomwecho, ochepa a ife akhoza kudzitama Mbali yaikulu musaganizepo dongosolo.

Likupezeka lalikulu zedi kwa buku la "The Book, zomwe ziribe" mayankho kutsimikizira kuti owerenga akuganiza, chifukwa, azitha maganizo munthu ndi kuthana ndi malingaliro awo.

kutengepo mbali

Amene ankadziwa bwino lembali zamatsenga, dziwani kuti kanthu udzachitika pang'onopang'ono, pafupifupi mosadziwa. Monga pa nthawi inayake mungayambe kuona kuti mosiyanasiyana zikuchitika bwino, si monga kale. Ndipo amatha kuona pa okha m'njira yosiyana ndi kusintha maganizo awo anapereka dziko Novak Alex.

"Buku cimene cilibe" mayankho chimene ife azipereka m'nkhani ino njira yake yatsopano ya chikoka pa mapeto a chidwi kwambiri kwa omvetsera maganizo. Ndipotu, ambiri akhala akuyesetsa kupeza kungakupatseni njira kusintha miyoyo bwino. mfundo lemba ichi, zimathandiza.

About n'kofunika kukhala nokha, muyenera kuuza oyamba. "Bukuli, lomwe si" (ndemanga za izo zinali Nkhaniyi) akutsimikizira kuti palibe m'dziko lapansi kuposa kuteteza udindo yake. Ndipo owerenga mungavomereze kuti ambiri a ife, mwatsoka, moyo chabe mwa inertia, popanda kuganizira chilichonse mkulu, wosafuna kutenga udindo tsogolo lawo.

nthawi oba

Ngati anthu akudziwa mmene mungagwiritsire zaka zawo zabwino, izo basi kuti anadabwitsa irresponsibility wake ndi kupusa. Owerenga amanena kuti iwo kwakukulukulu anatsegula maso awo mutawerenga lemba. Kodi chotheka, ndi zinthu zonse kukwaniritsa, nthawi miyezi ndi zaka ntchito achabechabe amene omangika mwakuti palibe nthawi ufulu kulenga kudziletsa kuzindikira.

Pakati oba ukulu wa nthawi: TV, Internet, maloto wosatha, kufunafuna ndalama, ndende kwambiri pa chuma. Ndi njira imeneyi, chilakolako mkati Mokhumbira munthu pang'onopang'ono achotsa, kusamukira passivity ndi ulesi, ndipo akutsimikiza "buku, chimene kulibe."

Mayankho za izo, ndi momwe, kuti buku la zoona kwambiri, kuganizira kufufuza mkati choonadi ndi munthuyo.

Yopulumutsa mphamvu za kulenga

Apa tikukamba za ndicho kudziwa mmene mungagwiritsire ntchito zake gwero mphamvu , nawasunga mu dongosolo labwino. Yopulumutsa mphamvu za kulenga zikusonyeza kuti anthu athe kugawira mphamvu kuti kusiya nthawi ndi tchuthi, ndi chitukuko munthu. Apo ayi, panthawi ina sangathe chabe kukhala osafuna kuchita.

Mosakayikira, mmodzi wa ntchito wamphamvu chi mabuku otchuka ndi "Buku, chimene kulibe." Reviews owerenga kutsimikizira kufunika kwake. Kale anthu ambiri amatha kusintha miyoyo yawo kwa bwino. Chofunika mwina kufuna kusintha.

Njira "Kotero"

Pamene moyo wanga kuti chinachake sachiza, zimene choyamba - ndi amayamba kufooka ndi manja m'munsi. Timakonda mphwayi chifukwa cha zinyalala zonse kuti tiribe nthawi kumanzere kwa moyo, madongosolo atsopano ndi kuyesetsa kuzikwanitsa. Ngati moyo wanu kwenikweni panali chinachake zosasangalatsa, muyenera kukoka mpweya wake, kunena mokweza mawu akuti "kotero" ndi kupitiriza zintchito.

Choncho, ngati opotoka zinachitika, kuchepetsa phindu lake m'maso mwake. Usaope kuchepetsa kufunika zolephera inkachitika, kuti inu kumangitsa mu moyo wanga kuti chinthu chothandiza ndi zamtengo wapatali.

Owerenga amanena kuti iwo ikuchitika kupeza nkhani iyi zofunika - adakhoza kuphunzira kuchita misozi kulephera ndi kupitiriza kuchita azitengapo ndi molimba mtima. Ngakhale kupezeka m'buku "Buku cimene cilibe" mayankho okha angathe angachititse chidwi munthu woganiza.

MIZUKWA mphamvu

Ndi palibe chinsinsi chimene tazunguliridwa osati anthu abwino ndi zaukhondo. Pali omwe amatha kubwezeretsanso nkhokwe zawo mphamvu likuvutika ena. Anthu otero amanyoza okha ndiponso kusakaza ozungulira. Asakhalenso MIZUKWA mphamvu. Musalole inu ntchito batire monga batire la.

Musati kulankhula ndi anthu zosasangalatsa, pambuyo zimavuta amene mwatopa ndi ofooka. Zimenezi zingakuthandizeni kukhala ndi mtendere wamumtima komanso kudzikayikira. Mudzamva mphamvu ndi kukula mphamvu mkati. Izi kudziwa "buku, chimene kulibe." Reviews owerenga ake oyamikira amene anatha kusintha miyoyo yawo, akuwonjezeka tsiku lililonse.

maganizo abwino

Kodi inu muchita, n'kofunika kukhala okhoza kupulumutsa padziko wosatekeseka. Apo ayi, mudzakhala mofulumira kwambiri kutulutsa ndipo sangathe kupitiriza ulendo wawo. anthu angati kuponyera mmwamba manja awo pa chiyambi cha njira, popanda akuyesera kusankha zinthu, yopanda ngakhale chiyambi.

Tiyeni padziko silipita mu maganizo abwino! Izi zingathandize kuthana ndi mavuto kanthawi kuthana ndi mavuto kwambiri. Komanso, ndi maganizo abwino ndi zosavuta kwambiri pamoyo, mukhoza kupewa kwambiri kukhumudwa.

Owerenga taonera phindu la ntchito zimene, kulemba ndemanga za bukhu. "Buku cimene cilibe" - panthawi akhala mu ankafuna ndi otchuka.

Motero, kudziwa ndi bwino kuyamba ndi kumvetsa zimene amayembekezera. Only mu nkhani iyi kuwerenga zosangalatsa ndipo adzakupatsani phindu kwambiri.