Yankho chipongwe, malingaliro zomwe zili adiresi yanu

Nthawi zambiri, zikuwoneka kwa inu kuti dziko chilungamo kwa inu. Anthu mukumva kutukwana, kutukwana, mwano, amene amalephera kuzindikira ozungulira inu. Zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri kusonyezedwa bwino maganizo, bata amamva bwanji izo, zina sangakwanitse. Kodi wapakamwa manyazi, ndipo ambiri Chofunika, momwe kuyankha chipongwe ndi, ngati chikukhudza inuyo? Ambiri adzakhala ndi chidwi kudziwa za izo.

Ndipo ngati m'pofunika kuyankha zoopsa zotere? Bwino kuganizira mmene kuyankha chipongwe, ndipo chabe kunyalanyaza pamaso pa munthu amene analola kulumbira pa adiresi yanu. Kusankha njira za khalidwe, inu osati kupulumutsa wanu mtendere wa mumtima komanso kukakamiza watilakwira kuganizira kuti anene mawu chifukwa iwo salabadira izo mwa chipongwe mangawawo.

Nthawi zambiri padziko, kulankhula wamwano, choncho ndikufuna kunena yekha ndi amene akadzikuza yekha pamaso pa anthu. Pankhaniyi, musanayankhe chipongwe ndi, ganizirani mfundo, osati kuchititsa kutukwana inu kumverera chisoni ndi chifundo. Ngati inu bwanji kwa chipongwe wamwano, Wonyoza anu ayamba kukondwera, chifukwa iye anali wokhoza kukukhudzani ndi ruffle. Nthawi zina mwadzidzidzi inu kulalatira chipongwe kuti mwamtheradi sindikudziwa momwe kuyankha chipongwe, ngakhale ndi bwino kutero. Komabe, chiwerengero chachikulu cha anthu, ngati iwo ananena chinachake wamwano, nthawi yomweyo anayamba kuganizira za mmene kubwezera. Izi ndi zolakwika! Iwo safuna tinganene, "fritter kutali". Abiti chipongwe "mwa khutu." Ngati inu akhudza mawu adayankhulidwawo kuyankha chipongwe ndi nthabwala, kuti asataye ulemu wawo.

Kumene, njira imeneyi si kusalaza zinthu, koma adzalola kuti mwaulemu kutuluka kumene. Tiyerekeze kuti maganizo a munthu alibe alibiretu tanthauzo, salinso kuyesa kulankhula naye.

Pali njira ina mmene kuyankha mwaulemu kwa chipongwe ndi. Njirayi imatchedwa "Aquarium".

Ngati bwana wanu, kuchita "kukonzekera msonkhano" amayamba mokweza mawu inu ndi kulumbira, kulingalira ngati iye - yaing'ono nsomba kusambira mu Aquarium ndi kuyesera kuti anene chinachake, chotsegula pakamwa, ndipo inu simukumva chilichonse ndipo 'mpweya kugwedeza "kwathunthu zovuta kuzimvetsa.

Ntchitoyi adzalola inu pambuyo pa msonkhano ku Suopa ndipo sataya mizimu yabwino, pamene Abwenzi anu adzaona azisiyana.

Mkwiyo ndi mwano kuyankha ndi kumwetulira, koma kuphunzira mmene tingachitire zimenezi, muyenera zina maganizo kukonzekera. Makamaka ngati mudzamva mawu opweteka ku snapper kuti akhoza kuyankha chipongwe chiyani? Kumene, inu angamuuze zotsatirazi: "Ndinu amwano komanso yosatukuka anthu." Nthawi zina yankho amapereka zotsatira n'kamodzi. Anthu sakupeza kuti chinthucho ndi inu ndi mwayi pakamwa naye. Zosayenera ndiponso operewera njira pankhaniyi - mokweza kuchita mawu a Wonyoza ake. Ena amagwiritsa ntchito njira monga "sloshing mphamvu zoipa madzi" pamene kufuula mawu kulongosola lonse osiyanasiyana maganizo anasonkhanitsa. Pamakhala wosambitsa ndi madzi ozizira ndi tuna yekha mu njira positive.

Chiyani tinganene kuti kuyankha chipongwe anthu ena? Ndingatani kusintha wamwano? Mwina, koma wanzeru kusiya iwo onse a ojambula.