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Ngati timatenga monga maziko mudziwe maganizo "jenda" mu dikishonare, amene kutanthauziridwa monga "kugonana chikhalidwe", yemwe akuti "Khalidwe jenda" Tingaone monga asapita chikhalidwe cha anthu, yoperekedwa kwa amuna ndi akazi osiyana kwachilengedwenso. Makamaka ankachita chikhalidwe ndi umunthu maganizo ndi makhalidwe makhalidwe khalidwe la munthu.

Ndiko mawu osavuta anthu, tikhoza kunena kuti asapita jenda - ubale si kugonana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi m'njira wodziika mawu.

Mu nthabwala yatsopano, ndi zidutswa zoseketsa mu monologues zosiyanasiyana nditaona mokhumudwa mu siteji ndi TV zowonetsera funso ikukambidwayo "wamkazi mfundo" ndi "mfundo ya munthu." mfundo ziwiri izi zotsutsana, monga anali kumenyana ndi mzake. Ngakhale kuti mfundo yakuti "mfundo" apa si mwa malo. Choncho kunyozedwa jenda khalidwe zosiyanasiyana.

Mugone Gender si wabwino ndi kugonana kwachilengedwenso ndi chuma chawo wa munthu, maphunziro ake, kuti azikhala ndi ndalama, malo ake okhala. Mwachitsanzo, palibe amene anadabwa ndi chakuti bizinesi okalamba limapezeka wamng'ono mkazi kapena mbuye, kuti sizikuthandiza, si kuphunzira, sachita chilichonse kuzungulira nyumba, koma mowirikiza afika mtengo zodzikongoletsera ndi kuyendera malo odyera. lafalitsidwa udindo mu gulu ili la anthu athu ndi pafupifupi ponseponse. Komabe, n'kupanda kuganiza kuti banja wamba akumidzi a mkazi adzakhala m'kati mwa mlungu ndi kufamba mu zovala posh mtengo tulo mpaka masana ganyu kukonza nyumba buthulo. Apa mfundo yosiyana a maudindo mu moyo.

Kale kufalitsidwa kwa maudindo anthu mbali yofunika, chifukwa anathandiza anthu apulumuke. Anthu oyenera udindo mbuye, ndi mkazi ayenera kuti Kumvetsela chifuniro chake mu zokhumba zake. Iye - anali nkhoswe, wochirikiza ndi woyang'anira, Iye - chitetezo, yozungulira, kapolo omvera. Mosiyana ndi maganizo oti "kugonana", masiku mawu "jenda" amadziwa salisiyanitsa mkazi ndi amuna muzochitika zones za moyo, wakupatsani kuganizira jenda ndi kuphunzira kwake mbali maganizo, koma musalole manyazi kukayikitsa "kufooka" akazi wamkazi.

Ngakhale kuti akazi kale anagonjetsa waukulu chifukwa pansi mkati ndi kunja maudindo khalidwe n'kuyamba kuchita zinthu momasuka kwambiri pa anthu, kuchita osati ntchito zapakhomo, komanso kuzindikira okha akatswiri monga bwino zoonekeratu ndi khama mwina olakwika a wamphamvu (wochenjera ndi bwino) chikhalidwe chachimuna ndi ofooka (olephera) chosalimba, m'mawu chinenero. Samalani, chifukwa mawu akuti "akatswiri" kapena Mwachitsanzo, "mabuku" - chachimuna, koma pofuna kuitana mkazi "akatswiri" ( "mabuku") zikumveka ngati njira yake "masculinize", kupereka ndi makhalidwe wamphongo. Pa nthawi yomweyo, ngati inu kutembenuza mawu grammatically ndi kuwonjezera muzu suffix ndi zachikazi kutha "professionalka", kapena "mabuku" - mawu kumveka achipongwe. zodabwitsazi kale nkhondo mu West, kuti kusintha mu galamala lapansi. Mwachitsanzo, m'chilankhulo cha German mawu onse okhudzana ndi dzina a ntchito ndi kukhala ndi mtundu wa chachimuna ndi chachikazi ndithu.

Munthu amene analola kulakwitsa kalembedwe n'kunyeketsa motsutsa mawonekedwe wamkazi wa mawu ndi mapeto a osonyeza chachimuna, ngozi akugwa pansi kukayikirana monga sexist, misogynist. Innocent (mu maso a nzika avareji Russia) kuzembera mu khalidwe la azungu mwina mavuto aakulu. Unobtrusive maganizo amafuna thandizo ku psychoanalyst ali chofewetsetsa likupezeka mu nkhokwe ya nkhondowo ngati khalidwe odana ndi chikhalidwe. Izi ndi zotsatira za kulimbana kusasiyana pakati pa Ulaya ndi njira kupewa nkhanza akazi.
Pa nthawi yomweyo n'zoonekeratu kuti umbuli aliyense European ambiri nzika athu pa nkhani za kuwerenga maganizo ndi kusasiyana pakati. Kunyalanyaza malamulo kufanana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, "mutu wa banja" mu Russia amaona khalidwe wachibadwa chipongwe, manyazi awo "hafu inayo." Nthawi zambiri mabanja oterowo pali nkhanza ndipo ngakhale kudzichekacheka. Woopsa ngakhale mfundo kuti chodabwitsa suschestvet, koma anthu amene amachitira iye ndi ena zokhazokha.

Komabe, okhazikika bwino olakwika jenda kupanga nzika wathu kunyalanyaza mfundo yakuti ziwawa m'banja nthawi zambiri pansi amuna ndi akazi awo. Chibadwire, anyamata anaphunzitsa kuti atsikana asawononge - chifukwa iwo ali ofooka. Mchitidwe umenewu pakati pa banja kumabweretsa mfundo yakuti kukula ndi kukhala "pansi chidendene" bwenzi la moyo, ena amuna ndi zina poyera adzakupanda ndi kunyozana, wosanyengereredwa (pamwamba pa zonse - maganizo) kuti adziteteze okha.

Mu America, pali zosiyana kwambiri vuto timakhala jenda. Konsekonse amadziwika loteteza ufulu wa akazi zofuna kufanana zonse. Ndipo chifukwa cha ntchito ku khoti kungakhale kuti munthu akudutsa dona patsogolo zoyendera kapena kutsegula chitseko kwa iye.

Choncho, mfundo "Khalidwe jenda" amatanthauza dera chikhalidwe, mogwirizana kwa amuna ndi akazi kwachilengedwenso, koma mavuto ake akuwuka mu maphunziro wa zamaganizo jenda.