Mphatso mwamuna wake kuti kubadwa kwake: mavuto n'ngosathetseka sizichitika

Kupereka mphatso - izi ndi zabwino, ngati, ndi kulandira iwo, kapena ngakhale bwino, ndi nthawi zonse ntchito pa kufunafuna mphatso sanawerengere basi mu kanthu popita kukawagulira zinthu kumsika, ndipo anakhala ndondomeko moona kulenga, ndi kukhudzidwa amakumana nawo pogwiritsa, pamene ine kwenikweni kuti mphatso anabwera kulawa, ndi tostuemy wokondwa moona kumuona, osati ofanana ndi china chirichonse. Mwatsoka, kusankha mphatso - si kophweka ndi wokoma chinthu: zina kumakhaladi vuto kwenikweni, ndipo mmodzi wa ovuta kwambiri milandu matenda - mphatso kwa mwamuna wanga kuti kubadwa kwake, komanso pa holide ina iliyonse.

Lililonse mkazi wokwatidwa takumana ndi vuto chaka chilichonse: Ndipotu kugula mphatso kubadwa mwamuna wanga - si chinthu chomwecho monga kudzamuthokoza aakulu kapena msuweni wachiwiri. Ngati wachiwiri, ndi okwanira kusonyeza chidwi mtengo kwambiri, koma paliponse kumangako mphatso, onyamula chilichonse payekha. Chifukwa chaichi, oyenera chidwi, koma atakhala ndi ndale alendo mphatso: mipira Newton, mawotchi tebulo, paperweights, zolembera, zolemba ndi zina zotero. Pankhani ya wokondedwa zingakhale zofunika kusangalatsa, osati kutenga ngakhale si wotsika mtengo koma mphatso ofunda, mphatso zimene zili zofunika ndipo adzakhala gwero la kunyada, osati kwa chinthu wokha, komanso chifukwa cha mkazi wake, amene anali wokhoza kuti amvetse wokondedwa ndi zofuna zake. Kumene, zosavuta kuti mphatso kwa mwamuna wanga kuti kubadwa kwake, ngati mukudziwa zimene iye akufuna, koma, osalephera, zaka kuti munalipo pamodzi, inu anathanso kupanga maloto ake onse, ndi kuyamba latsopano katatu pachaka, pamaso kubadwa kwake, February 23, ndipo Chaka Chatsopano sikuti ntchito. Kodi kuchita mu nkhani iyi?

Choncho, iwalani za angakhale angelo shawa, onunkhira, zikulumikizana ndi zamkhutu ena: uyu si mphatso, zinthu zofunika, ndipo mogula kubadwa si zoonadi: ife amatopa tikakhala pa tchuthi kupereka chitsulo kapena zotsukira kuyamwa. Munthu uyu - mphatso woona, ndipo ngakhale Masewero gudumu - osadandaula: lero n'zotheka onse. Kumene, ngati munthu ali ndi chizolowezi, mphatso kwa mwamuna wake kubadwa kwake kuti zosavuta, chifukwa yankho lake lili padziko. Ndipo sasiya chakuti ndi chizolowezi inu amazipanga zosasangalatsa: kwenikweni annoys inu, si, koma kuti izo ziyenera kuti nthawi zina anatenga chidwi zonse. Ndi mphatso angathe kukonza zinthu: Choyamba, mwamuna adzayenera kukhutitsidwa kuti inu mwasonyeza kulemekeza ndi kuganizira zofuna zawo, ndipo kachiwiri, udzakhala ndi mutu watsopano kulankhulana. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli uchitsiru chinthu zosasangalatsa ndi madzulo wokondedwa wanu atakhala mu chipinda yosawerengeka, nadzam'ninkha ya yosawerengeka, osati kokha inu kusangalala limodzi madzulo, komanso mwayi woti tipambana kumvetsa. Ndipo musaope kuti inu simutero tinganene: ndithudi inu ndipo inu mukudziwa momwe iwo mukufuna kuti atiphunzitse ife.

Ndipo ngati palibe changu, kapena iwo kusintha pa liwiro pafupi malo oyamba? Ndiye ife tikhoza kupereka chinachake chosaoneka ndi maso. Masiku ano, pali magulu ambiri amene amakhazikika mu mphatso izi amapereka inu zikalata zosiyanasiyana mphatso. Izo zikhoza kukhala zosiyanasiyana ntchito kwambiri monga paragliding kapena parachuting, ndipo angakhale ndi maulendo zosangalatsa, makalasi osiyanasiyana mbuye kapena maphunziro. A zambiri zidindo ndi maganizo kungakupatseni. Ngati mphatso kuphatikiza ndi chikondi mapeto a tsiku, tsiku lobadwa izi silidzaiwalika kwa nthawi yaitali.

Mukhozanso kupanga mphatso chidwi ndi manja awo, kusonyeza munthu pazipita m'maganizo ndi zilandiridwenso. Zimenezi zingakhale tingachipeze powerenga osokedwa juzi ndi chivundikiro zosangalatsa foni kapena laputopu mafoni thumba - Chofunika, kuti mphatso yagwirizana ndi kukoma ndi kalembedwe anu osankhika.

Tsopano, zimene kusabwerera: kuwonjezera platitudes pamwamba ndi katundu tsiku, musataye zimene sindikumvetsa, chifukwa chiopsezo zosakondweretsa kapena kukhala zimene zili apo, si mkulu. Ngati inu muli Ndi chipeneko - bwino kuchita zina trinket wokongola kugula kuposa konse.