Moyo wopanda kukhumudwa, kapena Momwe mungatsimikizire kuti chokhumbacho chikukwaniritsidwa

Munthu ndikumverera, kulingalira ndi zolakalaka, choncho nthawi zina zimachitika kuti malingaliro athu ndi malingaliro athu onse alowerera mu loto pa chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kwa ife kuti chimakhala tanthauzo la moyo wonse. Ndi zophweka kulingalira momwe kukhumudwitsidwa, pamene chiyembekezo chikugwa, ndi maloto okondedwa akhalabe kale, ndipo sichinachitikepo. Kodi mungapewe bwanji kukhumudwa, kuonetsetsa kuti chokhumbacho chikukwaniritsidwa? Momwe mungakhalire moyo, kulota ndi kupindula nokha?

Nchifukwa chiyani ife sitimapeza zomwe ife tikuzifuna?

Kuyambira pa ubwana wathu tinauzidwa kuti sikokwanira kupanga chokhumba: kuti chikwaniritsidwe, munthu ayenera kuchifuna kwambiri! Mawu awa ndi oona, ndi onama panthawi yomweyo. Tangoganizani zomwe zikuchitika, muyenera kusowa mtedza. Mumagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zonse ndi mphamvu, ndipo mmalo mwa nucleolus pakamwa pakamwa, mutenge zidutswa za chipolopolo ndi zinyenyeswazi. Ndi maloto athu timachita chimodzimodzi. Tili "kuyesetsa" pazochitika ndi mphamvu zathu, kuti mwina sitingapeze zomwe tifuna, kapena tilibe chilichonse. Maloto athu, monga mtedza, amawopsya pansi pa zovuta zathu. Ndiye momwe tingakwaniritsire kukwaniritsidwa kwa zikhumbo?

Muyeso yonse ikufunika

Tsopano ganizirani mipira iwiri yomwe imayendana kwa wina ndi mzake ndikukumana pa nthawi inayake. Mulole izi zikuwonetseratu kuti kukwaniritsa chikhumbo. Mabalawo, atalandira malingaliro, yambani ulendo wawo, ndipo zonse zikuyenda bwino, koma mukufuna kuti awonane mofulumira, chifukwa mukufuna kuti malotowo akwaniritsidwe, kwezani imodzi mwa mipira, ndipo ikuuluka ndi masekondi pang'ono kale. Mofananamo mumakhudza zochitika za moyo wanu, nthawi zonse yesetsani "kukwaniritsa" ndi "kuthamanga", ndipo dzifunseni chifukwa chake sizigwira ntchito! Fufuzani chitsanzo ndi mipira: momwe mungatsimikizire kuti chokhumbacho chikukwaniritsidwa? Njira yokhayo yotsimikizirika sikuyenera kusokoneza chitukuko cha mkhalidwewo. Inu munapereka mphamvu, mukukankhira mipira, tsopano mukufunikira kupita kumbali ndi kuyembekezera. Mumoyo weniweni, zonse ndi zovuta, koma palibe kusiyana kwakukulu. Kodi mwazindikira kuti nthawizina ndikwanira kusiya chirichonse ndi dzanja kuti mkhalidwewo mwadzidzidzi utsimikizidwe mwanjira yabwino kwambiri kwa inu? Kodi anthu amalankhula bwanji pazochitika zoterezo? "Ndasiya kuyembekezera," "pamene panalibe chiyembekezo," "Ndayiwala kale" - mawu awa akufotokoza bwino mwatsatanetsatane mfundo zoyendetsera zofuna.

Kodi mungatsimikizire bwanji kuti chokhumbachi chikukwaniritsidwa?

Kuti maloto anu akwaniritsidwe, ayenera kukhala enieni momwe angathere. Simungangowona "ndalama zambiri" kapena "mkazi wabwino", chilengedwe sichivomereza malemba osamveka: kujambulani chithunzi cha maloto anu momveka bwino, ndi mfundo zonse zomwe zingakulowereni. Ngati mumalota galimoto, muyenera kudziwa chomwe chiti chidzakhale, mtundu wanji, mtengo wotani. Ngati ponena za chuma, chiyenera kukhala chiwerengero chodziwika. Ngati mukufuna kukhala achimwemwe m'banja, muyenera kuwonetsa bwino mnzanuyo, mawonekedwe ake, kutalika kwake, kulemera kwake, msinkhu wake, makhalidwe ake. Chithunzi chowonekera, mofulumira dongosolo lanu lidzachitidwa. Tangoganizani kuti munatenga tekesi ndikukupempha kuti mubwere kunyumba osati kudilesi. Kodi muli ndi mwayi wopita kumeneko, ngati woyendetsa galimoto sakukhala mnansi wanu pakumalowa? Muyenera kufotokozera mwachidwi chilakolako chanu, ndiyeno mutsimikizireni mosamalitsa ku mavuto ena osayesayesa popanda kuyesa kutsogolera zochitikazo. Musati muthetse mutu wanu ndipo musayese kumvetsa momwe chilengedwe chidzakwaniritsire dongosolo lanu. Mwamaliza kale gawo lanu la ntchito, tsopano musasokoneze wina. Tsopano kuti mukudziwa momwe mungapangire kuti chilakolako chikwaniritsidwe, pitani, khalani ndi maloto anu ndipo khalani okondwa!