Mmene mungapezere ntchito ya moyo.

Kodi mukudziwa kuti 80 peresenti ya anthu a m'dziko lathu adzivomereza okha kuti sagwira ntchito ndi ntchito? Eya, vutoli ndi loopsa kwambiri. Tili mwana, tonse tikulakalaka kukhala munthu wina, kumanga tsogolo lathu la ana, nthawi zambiri kusintha maganizo athu m'tsogolo. Ndiye pakubwera nthawi ya sukulu yosasamala. Zikuwoneka kuti mukudziwa kuti muyenera kuphunzira, koma zomwe zili, sizili bwino. Pafupi ndi sukulu yapamwamba, izo zazindikira kale kuti yankho la funso lakuti "Kodi mungapeze bwanji ntchito yabwino?" Motsogoleredwa kumadalira kusankha kwa yunivesite kuti mupitirize maphunziro. Udindo wanu wamtsogolo udzakhudza moyo wanu wonse. Kotero, musanayambe kuganizira za momwe mungapezere ntchito ya moyo wanu, yesani kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika mu moyo womwewo.

Nthawi zambiri mungamve: "Izi zikhoza kudziwa momwe mungapezere ndalama zabwino, komanso chisangalalo cha njirayi." Tsoka, nthawi zambiri izi sizigwira ntchito. Mamilioni a anthu padziko lonse lapansi amapita kuntchito zosakondedwa tsiku ndi tsiku, monga omwe anaweruzidwa ku Golgotha, koma samafuna kusintha chirichonse. Amafuna kukhala olondola, komanso kwa zaka zambiri, akukangana pa malo omwe angadziwonetse okha komanso momwe angapezere ntchito ya moyo. Ndipo kodi onsewa anali ochenjera bwanji pamene inu munasankha sukulu ndi wapadera?

Kotero, tingathandize bwanji ophunzira apasukulu apamwamba kuti asankhe bwino ndikumvetsetsa luso lawo ndi luso lawo? Inde, palinso ana a sukulu omwe angathe kunena momveka bwino zimene akufuna kuchita pamoyo wawo, adalota izi kuyambira ali mwana ndipo amamva ntchito yeniyeni. Koma, mwatsoka, mayunitsi amenewa.

Choyamba, mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito malangizo kwa aphunzitsi. Wophunzira aliyense ali ndi mphunzitsi, yemwe amamvetsera komanso kumumvera. Koma uphungu woterewu umangomveka komanso kumveka pokhazikika pa chidziwitso, pambuyo pake kuti apitirize kufufuza kwawo patsogolo.

Pakalipano, pali chiwerengero chachikulu cha akatswiri omwe angathandize posankha ntchito. Muyenera kulankhulana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, woyang'anira chuma ndi bwana wamalonda. Adzaphunzira zochitika za umunthu wanu ndikuwonetsa njira yabwino kwambiri kwa inu. Pali ntchito zotero zomwe zimafuna makhalidwe ena okhaokha, ndipo kusakhala kwawo patatha zaka zingapo za ntchito osati pamalo ake kudzakufikitsani ku masoka achilengedwe.

Poganizira za momwe mungapezere ntchito zomwe mumakonda, mungathenso kutchula njira yapadera yoyesera. Koma pa izi musagwiritse ntchito mitundu yonse ya magazini, mabuku ndi zolemba nokha. Ndi bwino kufufuza thandizo kwa anthu omwe amvetsetsa izi ndipo amatha kumasulira molondola zotsatira.

Ana ena a sukulu amamvetsera mwachidwi maganizo a makolo, omwe nthawi zonse amachititsa momwe angapezere ntchito ya moyo. Pankhaniyi, sitiyenera kuiwala kuti sizingakhale zolinga nthawi zonse. Kawirikawiri makolo, popanda kudzidziŵa okha, amakakamiza ana awo kukwaniritsa maloto ndi zikhumbo zawo. Izi zimachitika kuti mayi, yemwe ankalakalaka kukhala mpira wotchuka wotchedwa ballerina, koma pazifukwa zina akugwira ntchito monga woyendetsa basi, akufuna kutumiza mwana wake ku sukulu ya ballet, ngakhale kuti amadziwa bwino sayansi. Choipa n'chakuti nthawi zina ana sangathe kutsutsa bwino ndikupitirizabe zokhumba za makolo. Palibe chabwino ichi, monga lamulo, sichigwira ntchito. Choncho, malingaliro a anthu apamtima amayenera kuchitidwa mosamala.

Ngakhale zitakhala kuti mwasankha ntchito yolakwika, pamene simukupeza, mukamaphunzira ku sukulu kapena zambiri, musaope kusintha. Tsopano ndizopangika kukhala ndi maphunziro apamwamba angapo, ndipo alangizi othandizira maganizo amatha kusintha kusintha kwa ntchito zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri. Kotero, palibe malire kwa ungwiro.

Ngati mukuvutika ndi kuzindikira kuti mawa muyenera kupita kuntchito, ndiye kuti simukugwirizana ndi inu. Tsimikizirani ndi kuyamba kuchita. Simungathe ngakhale kulingalira kuti ndi chisangalalo chotani kuti mupange moyo monga chinthu chokondeka!