Kodi zikutanthauza kuti ndi mwana wabwino?

Chikondi ... mwachikondi ... Weasel ... Kusamalira ... china ndi chani akhoza kulemba mawu imakhudzana ndi mayi wathu. Kumbukirani, ana aang'ono, adatitonthoza ife titaona pa msewu pokhala mphaka, koma monga amatichitira pa matendawo, anabweretsa zipatso, iye sanali kugona usiku, ngati mwadzidzidzi dzukani ndipo anapempha madzi akumwa, iye yomweyo kutha . Kodi mukukumbukira pamene iye anafuna chinthu choterocho, mwadzidzidzi kuchokera kwinakwake chokoleti bar. Ndipo angati "ndikufuna" ndi "kupereka" zinachitikadi?

Ndiyeno kunabwera zaka womangika, mwadzidzidzi anayamba kuona kuti mayi anga sakumvetsa chifukwa chimene kudutsa ndi kukonza nthawi pamene muyenera kukhala kunyumba madzulo. Chifukwa iye sadzalola ine kuyenda ngati atsikana ena ndi anyamata? N'chifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti chinachake chikhoza kuchitika? Ndipo tsopano pafupifupi aliyense wa ife kale ndi ana awo ndi ife kumvetsa kuti sakudziwa kumene naye mwana wanu pamene iye afika kumbuyo, ngati simukhala mu chisokonezo chilichonse? Tsopano ali ndi foni, ndipo pamenepa? "Mayi, ine ndidzakhala kumeneko, musati mudandaule!" - ndipo ndikuganiza zimene mukufuna.

Kodi zikutanthauza kuti ndi mwana wabwino kwa mayi ake ndi amayi okha? Kuonetsetsa kuti iye amanyadira mwana wake, ndipo iye anali wotsimikiza kuti anaukitsa munthu wabwino?

Mlandu chifukwa cha zochita zonse, osati ndi mawu, koma ndi ntchito kutsimikizira izo zikutanthauza kuti mwana wabwino. Itanani nthawi, osati pamene malamulo mungafunike malangizo kapena kubwereka ndalama. Munthu aliyense ali ndi muyezo zawo bwanji kukhala wabwino wamkazi. Wina adzaitana kangapo tsiku kuti mukumbuke mankhwala, munthu zokwanira ndi nthawi angapo sabata. Wina akubwera pambuyo ntchito ndi chakudya kwa mayi anga, ndipo munthu nedoprosishsya ndi kamodzi pa sabata kubweretsa mbatata. Wina ndi chikumbumtima choyera asamukira kudziko lina ndipo alibe nawo chidwi chenicheni, ndipo kodi pali amayi, ndi wina ndi sadzamangidwanso kupita kumeneko, kumene kulibe mayi. Aliyense ali masomphenya lawo la chimene zikutanthauza kuti mwana wabwino. Chirichonse ndi wachibale aliyense, kuti n'zosatheka kudzatunga nkhope iliyonse. Komabe, aliyense akumvetsa izo pali malamulo kutsata ndi mwamtheradi ana onse - kuthandiza, onse ndalama ndi makhalidwe ake makolo, chisamaliro ndi chikondi, chidwi ndi kudzipeleka pa moyo wawo. Mu mawu ena - onse amene anakupatsani makolo anu pamene munali pang'ono.

Kulemekeza makolo awo - ndi chikhalidwe chachikulu. Ndipo mu zaka makumi awiri ndi makumi anayi, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti mayi pamaso panu - mkazi amene iwe unabadwa, amene anakupatsa zonse ine, kuphunzitsa anasamalira ndi kulondera, monga iye akanathera, ndi zina zambiri. Zinali iye amene inanyamula inu m'mimba kwanga, topaka wobiriwira utoto mawondo wosweka, ndipo iye anali ankathandiza kupeza njira ndi wosachiritsika, izo zinkawoneka kuti zinthu. Ndipo tsopano, patatha zaka, chinthu choyipa kwa amayi ndi abambo - n'kupanda ulemu iwo ndi chisokonezeko.

Kukondweretsa makolo kukondela wokondeka ndi zokongoletsera, chifukwa zodabwitsa zosangalatsa. Uwapemphe kuyenda, khalani ndi chidwi pa moyo wawo. Man zina zofunika zochepa kwambiri sangalalani ...

Kodi kukhala mwana zabwino - ndi kuthetsa mavuto a makolo awo osati kokha pamene wakalamba, koma kale kwambiri.

Osakhala odzikonda poyerekezera ndi makolo, kumbukirani kuti ngongole kwambiri. Kuona mmene ukalamba zapatsidwa kwa makolo mu nyumba yosungirako okalamba, chowapangitsa mosavuta. Chirichonse, iwo amati, ali otha lake sankafunika ... Kodi zonyansa kumva khoma kukuwa anzathu amene yells pa amayi ake, chigonere zaposachedwapa ndi lowopsya matemberero zofuna? Ndidziwa kuti ngati mkazi amene zaka 40 zapitazo kuluka michira ya nkhumba ndi mwana duwa-cheeked kupemphera za tsoka lake zomwe iye tsoka ili?

Kodi zikutanthauza kuti ndi mwana wabwino, aliyense akuuza mtima ndi chikondi kwa amake, amene umafunda mkati. Khalani achifundo, wachifundo ndi oyamikira kwa amayi m'ntchito zawo ndi nthawi, ndi ana anu adzakhala wosangalala.

Ndi chosangalatsa kwambiri pamene muli ndi mayi!