Kodi mungayamikire bwanji akale pa tsiku lake lobadwa?

Mwinamwake, mtsikana aliyense nthawi imodzi ankadabwa kuti angayamikire bwanji kale pa tsiku lake lobadwa, komanso ngati ayi kapena ayi. Ngati mudadzuka m'mawa ndi lingaliro "Ndikufuna kuyamikila kale pa tsiku lakubadwa kwake," ziyenera kuchitidwa kuti zikhale zokongola ndikukumbukiridwa kwa nthawi yaitali.

Kuwonongedwa kwa maganizo osokonezeka maganizo

Nthaŵi zambiri, osati omwe kale ankakonda, kuchuluka kwa chilengedwe kumaphatikizapo malamulo ena. Zimayamba kuoneka kuti izi sizomwe zimakonda (ngakhale kale), koma mtundu wina wa mdani. Ndikoyenera kuyamikila kale lomwe pa tsiku la kubadwa kwake kapena ayi - lingaliro ndi lanu. Koma mulimonsemo, izi sizitsimikizirika kuti simungazichite popanda izo kapena simungaiwale. M'malo mwake, ndi chizindikiro cha kukhwima mwauzimu, kuthekera kukhululukirana ndi ubale wamkati.

Dziwani cholinga

Asanayamikire omwe kale pa tsiku la kubadwa kwake, m'pofunika kumvetsa chifukwa chomwe chikhumbo choterocho chinayambira. Malingana ndi izi, mutha kusankha kale njira yoyenera.

Ngati mutangofuna kuyamika kawiri kawiri kawiri kawiri, musayamikire pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti omwe ali ndi positi. Kodi mumatha kukhalabe mabwenzi? Ndiye sizomwe kuli kofunikira kuti titsimikizire udindo wa "ex" - mukhoza kutumiza uthenga kapena kuitana. Izi zikuperekedwa kuti alibe wokondedwa, ndipo simudzasokoneza maitanidwe anu osati ndi tchuthi, koma ndi ubale wa anthu ena.

Zifukwa zingapo zoyamikirira

Ngakhale ngati inu ndi mnzanuyo simunachoke bwino, pali zina zofunika kuti muyamikire mwamuna wanu wakale pa tsiku lake lobadwa :

1. Mwana wamba. Zidzakhala bwino kwa iye ngati chiyanjano pakati pa bambo ndi mayi chili chofunda komanso chodalirika. Koma nkofunika kuti mukhale osamala pamene mwamuna ali ndi mkazi watsopano - musatchule popanda chifukwa. Koma kamodzi pa chaka, zikondwerero pa tsiku lanu lobadwa ndilololedwa.
2. Ntchito yayikulu komanso yothandizira. Ndi zopusa kuti musanyalanyaze lero ngati mutagwirira ntchito pamodzi. Simusowa kulemba ndakatulo, mungathe kuyamika omwe analipo pa tsiku la kubadwa kwake. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuchita moona mtima.
3. Inu mumayendayenda mosalekeza ndipo muli ndi anzanu wamba. Pachifukwa ichi, ponyalanyaza lero, mukhoza kudziwonetsa nokha mu malo osangalatsa kwambiri chilengedwe chisanayambe. Kuyamikila omwe analipo pa tsiku lakubadwa kwake, ndi pa foni, osagwiritsa ntchito msonkhano. Ngati mukufuna kupita ku mwambowu, mukhoza kubwera ndi mnzanu. Zoonadi, izi ndizoyenera kuti zisachitike kuti zisayambitse chisokonezo ndi kusayanjanitsa kumayendedwe anu kuchokera kwa woyambitsa phwando.

Ndibwino kuti tisiye kuyamikira?

Pali zifukwa zingapo pamene kuli bwino kukana kuthamangitsira wina wakale pa tsiku lake lobadwa, kuti asapangitse vutoli:

• Mwamuna wanu wakale samakukondani inu kapena moyo wa mwana wanu wamba;
• Munthu amene kale anali mnzanu wakukhumudwitsani, amanyozetsa ulemu ndi ulemu wanu;
• Pamene mukugawanitsa za inu, zabodza zonyenga zimafalikira;
• Zifukwa zina, kuphatikizapo kusafuna kwanu kukumbukira zakale.

Zikondwerero mwazochitika

Ngati mulibe chikhumbo chothokoza chikondi chapitacho mu vesi, kapena njira yomwe mukuganiza kuti si yoyenera, mungathe kuyamikila kale lomwe lidali tsiku lobadwa kwake ndi mawu. Chinthu chachikulu apa ndi chakuti mawu alembedwe ndikufotokozedwa kuchokera pansi pamtima. Mwachitsanzo, izi:

• Ndikukuyamikirani tsiku lanu lobadwa! Tiyeni tisakhale pamodzi, koma ndikufuna kuti mukhale okondwa. Chikondi ndi kukondedwa. Lolani tsiku lirilonse kukhala chifukwa cha chimwemwe ndi kumwetulira, ndipo zokhumba zanu zidzakwaniritsidwa.
• Tiyeni tisapite nanu mofanana, koma ndikukuthokozani tsiku lanu! Lero inu mukuyamba gawo latsopano la moyo, ili ndi Chaka Chatsopano chanu. Tengani mwa iye zinthu zonse zabwino zomwe zinalipo kale, ndipo musiye zoipazo m'mbuyomo. Ndikukhumba kuti chirichonse chidzakugwirirani ntchito.
• Ndikukuyamikirani tsiku lanu lobadwa! Khalanibe wolimba mtima, wamphamvu ndi wokongola mwamuna yemwe ine ndinayamba kugwirizana naye. Ndipo tiyeni ife tigawane, kwa ine iwe akadali munthu wapafupi. Zikomo chifukwa cha nthawi yomwe munandipatsa.
• Ngati inu ndi mwamuna wanu wakale muli ndi mwana, mutha kuyamika motere: Zikomo pa tsiku lanu lobadwa! Tiyeni tisakhale pamodzi tsopano, koma kwa mwana wathu (mwana wamkazi) ndinu abambo abwino kwambiri padziko lapansi! Tikukhumba kuti zokhumba zanu zonse zikhale zenizeni. Wamphamvu kwa inu thanzi ndi kupambana mu bizinesi. Tikukuthokozani chifukwa cha kukumbukira kwathu, komanso chifukwa chakuti tili ndi wokondedwa kwambiri komanso wokondedwa - mwana wathu. Timagwirizana.
• Ngati chochitika chofunika chikachitika mmawa wa kubadwa kwa wakale, mwachitsanzo, kusamukira kudziko lina, ukwati, kutsegula bizinesi yatsopano, mukhoza kutenga mawu ena. Mwachitsanzo: Zikondwerero pa tsiku lanu lobadwa! Kotero chomwe chinachitika ndi chomwe inu munalota! Lembani maloto anu mwamphamvu ndi manja anu ndipo musapereke kwa wina aliyense. Lolani mu moyo wanu padzakhala mipata yatsopano, chikondi chachikulu chomwe chidzakhalapo kwa moyo wonse. Bwino, ntchito yabwino ndi mtendere ndi wekha ndi ena. Mulole kuti pakhale chisangalalo ndi kumwetulira mu moyo wanu!

Ndikuyamika mu vesi

Pazochitika zanu simukudziwa chomwe munganene, ndipo kuyamika ndi chiwonongeko kumaoneka ngati chopusa, zolengedwa zomwe zatsirizidwa kale mu vesi zidzafika pothandizira:

Mawu okondweretsa sindidzafuula,

Ndipo chilakolako ndi zamatsenga,

Ndikukhumba iwe wathanzi ndi chimwemwe,

Palibe china choposa mtengo padziko lonse!

Nazi njira ina yabwino:

Ngakhale takhala tikugawanika kwa nthawi yaitali

Ndipo lawi lakumverera linali litapita kale,

Pokumbukira panali masiku athu,

Wachibadwa, okondedwa kwa ife.

Ndikukuyamikani tsiku lanu lobadwa

Ndi mtima wanga wonse, ndikufuna,

Ndikukondani inu mofanana, wamuyaya,

Mukukwaniritsa maloto anu.

Mungasankhe vesi lina:

Tsiku lobadwa lachimwemwe, kamodzi wokondedwa,

Ndikukumbukira tsiku lanu lobadwa,

Ndikuyembekeza lero ndi wokondwa,

Mosakayikira, ndimakondwera ndi ndekha.

Iwe ndi ine tinali abwenzi,

Ndipo ndikuyembekeza, ndikhoza kuyamikira,

Uthenga ukungotumiza,

Kupsompsona mmalo mwa mfundo yoti mutumize.

Ine, inu, mukudziwa, ndikuchitabe nsanje,

Koma mumtima mwanga ndikulakalaka zabwino,

Lolani mngelo wa kumwamba athandize

Ndipo ndi iwe nthawi zonse udzakhalapo.

Tsiku lobadwa ndi njira yowonanitsa

Ngati mutasweka ndi wokonda posachedwapa, tsiku lobadwa ndilo mwayi wabwino kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuchita izo mosagwirizana.

Kodi wokondedwa wanu analota chiyani pamene mudali pamodzi? Mwinamwake ndi kalata ya mphatso ya go-kart, T-sheti yokhala ndi zizindikiro za gulu lanu lokonda gulu kapena hockey, kulembetsa ku masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena zida za zida? Taganizani za izo. Tayang'anani pa mphatso yomwe mumakonda, itanani ndi kuyamika okondedwa anu. Ngati mungathe kukonzekera msonkhano pa tsiku lobadwa kapena masiku otsiriza - tipezani mphatso. Mwinamwake wanu wakale sadzakhalanso odutsa, ndipo adzakhala oopsya kwambiri.