Kodi kuiwala munthu ...

Chikondi ... kumverera The akuwonekera aliyense mphamvu zake. Koma malingana ndi zizindikiro ofanana chifukwa zonse: kugunda amafulumizitsa ataona chinthu, akhoza kutenga mpweya umodzi, kunjenjemera kuyamba zala ndi onse pa thupi thukuta ndi chisangalalo ndi ngakhale mwadzidzidzi kuwuka mu kutentha. zizindikiro zonse za matenda kumeneko. Njira za kufala: diso kukhudzana, madzi, wachikoka. Chithandizo Sikuti ngati pomupembedza chinthu ali ndi kachilombo chomwecho.

Pepani kuti cholowa cha nthabwala. Koma kwenikweni ndi munthu amakhala ndi yamtendere zosamvetsetseka mu mkhalidwe wa chikondi. Kumene, ngati kumverera ndicho. Dziko lonse amaziralira mwamsanga pamene ife tikuwona wokondedwa. Ndipo mu mphindi, ife tikuzindikira kuti kwambiri sitifunanso.

Koma mwina kuchitikanso dziko lonse lidzachita mdima, chibwenzi mwadzidzidzi kudzatha. Dzana okondwa bespamyatsva mwadzidzidzi kukhala n'zosatheka funso ili: "Kodi kuiwala munthu?" Ndipo ziribe kanthu chimene chinali chifukwa chake. Kodi kuiwala wokondedwa munthu amene limasonyeza ambiri? Kodi kuiwala ndi mafano? Kodi kuiwala ngati wake woyamba wamanyazi atchedwe chikondi? Masiku usana ndi usiku anakhala pamodzi, mapulani a m'tsogolo, monga maloto wokongola ... Chirichonse mwadzidzidzi n'kugwa ndipo zikuoneka kuti sizimatanthauza kuti moyo. Popanda Iye. Kodi n'zotheka kuiwala wokondedwa?

Yankho ndi zokhumudwitsa: ayi. Iwo adzakhala nanu. ululu adzakhala kuchepa yekha ndi nthawi. Musati muziganiza za mmene kuiwala wokondedwa. Kufunafuna njira kuti zotsatira. Basi kuyesa kukhala pa. Pali filimu imene mwana amene amadwala chikondi ndipo anataya chiyembekezo, nawonso adzazunzidwa ndi funso monga kuyiwala munthu. Iye akupempha bambo ake: "Kodi ine ndikuchita pano?" Inu mukudziwa chimene yankho anapereka atate mwana? The bwino: "Lolani!"

Kodi kuiwala munthu wopanda zopweteka, kusokonezeka kwa malingaliro, inexpressible chisauko ndi mavuto? Ndi kosatheka.

Komanso zimachitika kuti ululu kupita mzere zina pamene munthu amayamba zowawa, kale kumverera chisangalalo kuwawa wake. Ichi ndi mtundu wa masochism. munthu atseka nokha womwetula m'chipsinjo wake wa chikondi, kusangalala chifukwa cha iwo, osati kuzindikira aliyense, chiphe kuli okha, komanso okondedwa awo. Chifukwa cha gwero lachisokonezo yaitali amachititsa ena chotani: mutu, kukomoka, zilonda, kuchuluka kapena kuchepa zoipazi ... mndandanda zambiri yaitali. Palibe zodabwitsa iwo amanena kuti chifukwa cha matenda onse - misempha. Kukhazikitsidwa si wopanda nzeru wamba. zamaganizo ambiri amavomereza: ndi chikondi akhoza ukugwira matenda akuluakulu monga mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi uchidakwa. Ngakhale asing'anga wakale kuchitira chikondi ndi nkhawa. Avicenna, amene anali tate wa mankhwala Arabic, ananena kuti: "Chikondi ndi matenda Tags :. wozingwa, maso youma, dzenje, likukulira ndi chosatha ndakatulo kupuma kumva za chikondi, anali kufuula ndi chisoni, palibe kuti khalidwe; zimachitika chosokonekera ndi m'goli monga chisoni nkhope yake inagwa ... "

Ine sindingakhoze kukuuzani inu momwe kuiwala wokondedwa, chifukwa amakondadi sadzatha kuiwala. Koma zichepetse ululu anaukanso kwa akufa, komabe n'zotheka. Ndipo apa muli wofufuza mu kuya kwa moyo, moona mtima kuika zonse pa maalumali. Ndipotu, chikondi masquerade ngati maganizo ena. Chikumbumtima chimenechi umwini (ndi unmet), ndipo zinkakhala kudzidalira, ndi kuopa kukhala yekha, kapena ngakhale kwambiri kusadzidalira. Pokhapokhapo mwa phunzira kuzindikira maganizo amenewa, kuwalekanitsa iwo ku chikondi choona, inu kupanga sitepe yoyamba panjira kuchira. "Mwa mazana pamakhala kutenga dontho la mafuta, mazana a kuwawa -. Dontho la nzeru" Kodi woona mawu awa!

Yesetsani kuchita pepala ndi kulemba pa izo nkhani ya chikondi chake. Ndipo pomaliza, monga kugamula, append mawu akuti "izo zinali." Kuwotcha lemba limeneli, lomwe tsopano ndi mlatho pakati kale komanso zamasiku ano.

Moyo angadziwe ndi kudzipenda mwasangalala zokwanira. Tsopano ndi nthawi "kunyambita" chilonda. Musati yochulukirapo yaitali kwambiri bedi. Dzukani mwachangu. Zilekeni ndi m'mawa lumpha kapena kuyenda galu. Onse kwanu ndi mphamvu zanu. Yambani kupezeka gyms, kusambira dziwe. Azikongoletsa dziko, kupanga ena kuyang'ana pa inu ndi kuzizwa ndi ngakhale nsanje. Kukachezera hairdresser, kusamalidwa manja ndi makadabo, kukagula. Ndi nthawi kusintha fano. Lekani kukambirana ndi anzanu kapena achibale pa mazunzo mutu. Agwera kwenikweni mu phunziroli, ntchito. Konzani moyo wanu monga zoletsa mphambano wokonda kale. Ilo linali kale. Azilimbikirazi wekha udindowu. Kumbukirani mawu otchuka: "Njira za Mulungu ndi inscrutable." Amene amadziwa, mwinamwake maganizo chabe amphamvu lero ali yekha chiyambi, mtundu wa rehearsal isanafike latsopano, wamphamvu ndi zambiri chikondi chenicheni?

Tayang'anani pa inu ndi dzanja ena. Mofanana simungathe kuona alendo. Ndikhulupirireni, ndi zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri. Musalole kuti anthu chisoni, chifukwa chisoni uphwetsa mofulumira kwambiri ndipo m'malo ndi osalabadira. Wopanda pake sangakhale amphamvu. Accustom okha zoti tsoka nazo masiku ano ndi katemera kuti adzapereka chitetezo chokwanira ku zolephera ndi zokhumudwitsa kwa zaka zambiri, sadzalola tsoka funso monga kuyiwala munthu ...

Ndi mawu ochepa pomaliza ... Literature, amadziwika ndi mphamvu zapadera. Onani, pamene muli ndi nthawi yopuma. Pewani tsiku yowawitsa "Gulugufe" lomwe linalembedwa ndi dongosolo la ofalitsa. novelettes amenewa ndi rasskaziki analembedwa zochokera omvera tcheru akukumana kapena chabe anakumana tsoka. Amaiwala mabuku amenewa nthawi yomweyo. Musalole olemba wotchipa kupeza maganizo anu ndi inu kukatenga pa kusanja wanu. Koma ... Pali wina chidutswa wokongola wa maganizo popanda chododometsa kuti akadali kwambiri amalangiza kuti kuwerenga: ndakatulo "Moscow - Petushki" (Yerofeyev). Ntchito iyi kwenikweni kukuthandizani kuyang'ana nokha kuchokera ku mbali yina ndi kupanga kuunika mofatsa zinthu.