Chitata ukwati - ndi chikhalidwe ndi miyambo

Traditional Chitata ukwati - ichi ndicho chochitika chofunika kwambiri iliyonse banja, miyambo ndi miyambo imene zimachokera mu kuya kwa zaka zambiri. Mwa miyambo, pali zinthu zitatu polenga banja latsopano: mkwatibwi kuchoka pakhomo popanda dalitso makolo ukwati ndi ukwati, komanso atigwira a mtsikanayo, sanali kuvomereza kuti mwambo wa ukwati.

Matchmaking: Monga ulamuliro, Chitata ukwati miyambo imene kwa zaka sinasinthe kwambiri m'kupita unachitika pambuyo matchmaking lapansi. Ndipo mkwatibwi zambiri anasankha mkwatibwi yekha ndi makolo ake, amene anatumiza matchmakers ku banja la mtsikana kuti azipempha chilolezo bambo ake ukwati. Ngati makolo Mkwatibwi anavomera ukwati, ndiye iwo anayankhula za chachikulu "ziwalo" za tsogolo la ukwati, chiwombolo ndalama, kenako anayamba kukonzekera zofunika pamwambowu.

Modern Chitata ukwati, mtengo mkwatibwi amene adakali mbali ya ndondomeko, miyambo yakale losiyana zimaonetsa zokha mphatso. Mu masiku akale makolo mkwatibwi analandira ndalama, mitundu yonse ya zinyama, makalapeti yapamwamba, ndipo tsopano ngati malowolo kawirikawiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi nyumba kapena galimoto. Pa chakudya cha anadzipereka kwa chibwenzi, achinyamata si zambiri tsopano lino, koma m'malo mkwati ndi mkwatibwi pa phwando ya zikondwerero zazikulu culprits ndi makolo awo. Kumapeto kwa mwambo banja la mkwati thireyi sherbet, zimene zikutanthauza kuti makolo a mkwati ndi malowolo anatenga ndithu kugwirizana ndi kukula kwake.

Achipembedzo mwambo: Aliyense Chitata ukwati akuyamba ndi "nikah" - mwambo wachipembedzo, imene kulembetsa mu buku lolembedwa ndi Mullah zinthu wapadera wa ukwati. zinthu zimenezi monga mphatso zonse, anatumiza mkwati ndi makolo ake, komanso kukula kwa malowolo ndi mankhwala zofunika chakudya ukwati. Wa zinthu zofunika kwambiri mu Zikatero nthawizonse wakhala kuchuluka kwa ndalama zimene mwamuna tsogolo ngati mukufuna kuti apeze chisudzulo chofunika kulipira mkazi wake.

Pamene mawu ndalama za ukwati anali kwathunthu wotchulidwa m'buku kalembera, Mullah anafuna chilolezo cha achinyamata mu ukwati, ndi monga mkwati ndi mkwatibwi sanapite ku mwambo, ndi udindo iwo makolo. Pa nthawi iyi, mkwatibwi anali zambiri kaya chipinda china cha nyumbayo, kapena opaque nsalu, ndipo anatumiza mboni ziwiri kuti titsimikize chilolezo iye kuti akwatiwe. Pamene Mullah anamva kwa mboni kuti inde, iye anatengedwera kuwerenga mbali zosiyanasiyana kuchokera Koran, omwe amadzipereka ku ukwati.

Madyerero a ukwati: Chakale Chitata ukwati anayamba ndi mapwando m'nyumba Mkwatibwi kwa masiku awiri kapena atatu, ndi makolo a mtsikanayo tinaitanidwa ake ndiponso mmene ankachitira matchmakers alendo. Alendo anapita kunyumba, banja mkwatibwi anayamba mosamala kukonzekera msonkhano wa mkwatibwi, kukonzekera chipinda chabwino angapo wamng'ono yemwe kukometsera zinthu wokongola kwambiri wa malowolo kwa Mkwatibwi. Mu chipinda chino, mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ndakhala masiku angapo pambuyo pa mwambo wa ukwati, ndi mutapita lolumikizana kwa kusamba mkwatibwi kusintha mu zovala zatsopano, adasoka mkazi wake womupatsira ndiye anapereka mphatso zosiyanasiyana ake.

Pa kufika loyamba la mkwati kunyumba Mkwatibwi mnyamatayo anali kubweretsa mphatso zosiyanasiyana, komanso kulipira dipo mwayi kulowa m'dera la bwalo, kulipira ufulu kulowa kuchipinda kwa mkwatibwi wake. Iye touted mphatso anthu topivshim kusamba ndi Mwala zofewa pakama la ukwati, anapereka mphatso kwa mwana aliyense m'mudzi, makamaka anafika panyumba ya makolo a mkazi. Choncho, kukonzekera ukwati wake, mnyamata zambiri adatenga sutukesi lalikulu kudzazidwa kwa Mlomo ndi mitundu yonse ya mphatso ndi amachitira.