N'chifukwa chiyani amuna pogona - tiyeni tiwone!

Ndipo kwenikweni, chifukwa amuna kunama? N'chiyani chimachititsa kugonana mphamvu, ndi bwino ndithu, olemera, mwamphamvu ataima pa mapazi ake, mwadzidzidzi kubisala maso ake, manyazi kumwetulira, manyazi, momvetsa kupeka nkhani ina ya zosaneneka?

Zikuoneka kuti ngati mulibe kuganizira abodza pathological kapena milandu monga Inspector General, chifukwa poyamba kunama ali ndi mofanana tonse: kuopa kuti sanamvetse, sakukukondani, sinadzatengedwe ndi achibale. Tikaona mmene zinthu zilili - chifukwa amuna pogona - likukhalira kuti timasiya kwakukulukulu mlandu. Man zambiri "shoulds": ayenera kupeza bwino, kukhala mutu wa banja, kukhala wokhoza kuchita zonse zapakhomo, kumanga ntchito, olimba lotseguka nkhani banki ... Iye akuyembekezeka njira yapadera, malangizo anzeru, zochita mwachangu. Ndipo ngati munthu anavomereza kufooka, ngati si nthawi zonse kupirira udindo wake? Ndipotu ife tonse - anthu, ndipo palibe munthu ndi mlendo kwa ife, ndi amuna - kuphatikizapo! Koma kodi zambiri akuti tiwonana kwa mkaziyo, munthu mlandu, pafupifupi mlandu. Kumukhumudwitsa, koma sayenera kulira, musaike! N'zovuta, koma kukhala oleza mtima, musati akudandaula! Ankalephera kuchita zinthu, dreary pa mtima - kanthu amasunga mtundu, Chinachake Yoipa Ndicho chifukwa amuna pogona! Osati propensity aname, osati chifukwa chofunitsitsa moonetsera, kuti alolere mu kuwala yabwino kwambiri. Komanso chifukwa cha zina - otayika, opanda magalimoto munthu pokhala ndi zapamwamba, koma ndi othina chikwama m'thumba mwake, akazi ambiri safuna kuvomereza. Ndipo ngati munthu amayamba kukambirana za mavuto awo, ngati likukhalira kuti si iye, koma afunika phewa, kongoletsani ndi akundithandiza - wokhala paubwenzi ndi munthu, malingana ndi kuwerengera, atatu kuchokera mu akazi khumi sadzakhala mangani.

Izi - woyamba ndi chifukwa chachikulu amuna pogona. Ndi ena - kusafuna wa mamembala ena a kugonana wamphamvu kukhala amphamvu ndi udindo. Chifukwa cha ichi mwina ndalama za maphunziro mu chisamaliro zosafunika ndi mpanda mwanayo, ndiye mnyamata wa moyo kwambiri. Infantile, asocial akhala diagnoses masiku ano anthu ambiri kulimbikitsa khalidwe la amachepetsa onse a anthu. Koma ndiye kachiwiri, ngati akazi zawo akuti tiwonana, akukuvutitsani, amuna, tsoka, palibe. Ubwenzi ndi munthu wakumanga pa njira unakhazikitsidwa kale popanda zinthu zenizeni.

Iwo akhala ali ndi mwamuna amasamalira mkazi amene zimamuthandiza kuthetsa mavuto, kutuluka mavuto, pamapeto, lili bata ndalama. Ngakhale feminism tsopano ikupita patsogolo, akazi ambiri amatha kupeza ndalama ndi kulipira zilakolako zawo, mfundo zokhudza Archive sanayambebe anagonja. Chifukwa chomwecho, wolimba, chikhulupiriro munthu kuti wochepa atsikana, kudzimenya nsidze mwa unsembe wa mapiko gulugufe - mmodzi wa iwo sadzalola pafupi anthu ake effeminate mwamuna sangathe ulendo de A mphamvu. Pokhulupirira wopambana ake m'tsogolo - ndicho chimene iwo akufuna!

Ndipo amene akusowa munthu? Mkazi amene azavomela kwa icho chiri. Ndi maofesi onse, zamorochki zokhumba analephera, mphamvu ndi zofooka. kuwerenga maganizo pakati pa amuna ndi akazi amasiyana. Ndithudi, musaiwale za pempho zithunzi, kugonana, luso kutsatira okha, kuthamanga banja ndipo ngakhale maziko - kuphika. Koma musanyalanyaze onse a m'dera lino mwamuna wamkazi khululukirani ngati banjali adzakhala kumvetsa ndi kulemekeza oona mtima. Ngati mkazi si mbuye iye, koma mnzanu, wodalirika komanso wokhulupirika bwenzi.

Chifukwa china - amuna kuganiza kuti angathe kugona "chipulumutso." Kuteteza okondedwa kwa nkhawa ndi zinthu zosafunika makamaka ngati chisokonezo izi zinachitika mu vuto lawo, akubisa choonadi, kuti kukulitsa nkhaniyo - Aona izi limathetseratu vuto lina lililonse chifukwa ambiri negativity. Ndithudi, izi n'zimene Nthiwatiwa ndi, m'manda mitu yathu mumchenga pamene pangozi, koma iwo ntchito.

Kuno ndikuganiza tsopano chifukwa amuna pogona ...