Kodi kuchita zinthu ndi munthu yemwe ubale sinathe msanga

Vuto ubale jenda nthawizonse zidzakhala zogwirizana, monga mtsikana aliyense sadziwa kuchita zinthu ndi munthu, komanso munthu aliyense samamvetsa khalidwe wamkazi. Komabe, amuna ndi akazi nthawizonse zakhala ziri ndipo adzakhala pamodzi ndi ena owayimilira ngakhale moyo wosangalala ndi mzake kwa zaka zambiri. Kodi iwo amachita izo? Mtsikana kuchita zinthu ndi mnyamata, kotero kuti ubwenzi wawo sinathe m'mwezi woyamba, ndipo anayamba kwenikweni? Zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti kukondera pa nkhani iliyonse angapezeke, ndi bwino pakati pa amuna ndi akazi mkazi ayenera kukhala pang'ono kuchenjera ndi luso.

Izo ziyenera kutero interlocutor chidwi, kapena kuti kuyenda pa zinthu zatsopano. Iwo amakonda mafashoni uthenga, atsikana miseche ndi ndandanda ya zoimbaimba za Pop nyenyezi wamba. Munthu chidwi zochitika ndi zikuluzikulu, monga mavuto azandale Uruguay kapena chifukwa mafuta ndi chosavuta ku Venezuela. Ndi zokwanira zina kuwerenga Websites uthenga, komanso chidwi pa masewera amakonda. chinsinsi china chosonyeza kuti zinthu ndi munthu, ndi kusakonda a amuna ndi akazi, amene onse angagwirizane, koma molemekeza atsikana omvera. M'mawu ena, iwo ali bwenzi langwiro liyenera kukhala ndi maganizo, koma mawu otsiriza akadali kumbuyo kwake, ngakhale kuti maganizo awo osiyanasiyana.

Ena milozo pa momwe kulankhula ndi munthu kusungira malo oterowo kuti msungwana ayenera nthawi zonse ndi chokondweretsa mugwire mawu aliwonse a Wodala iye. N'zochititsa chidwi kuti si achinyamata onse kugwirizana ndi ichi, chifukwa bwenzi kuti mawu onse kumwetulira ndi nods mutu wake, kuchititsa yekha chikhumbo chimodzi: kuitana msonkhano wapadera mankhwala ndi pempho kuthandiza izo. Chinthu chachikulu kukumbukira kuti amuna anthu kwambiri, ndipo iwo, monga aliyense, ine ndikufuna kulankhula, osati kulambira koloko. Nthawi zina kubwera malangizo kapena ndikungofuna kuti tikalalikire uthenga wa dzulo, ndi zina zochititsa chidwi kumva maganizo a bwenzi lake mu vuto linalake. Sikuthandiza nsonga onse magazini akazi anatengedwa kwambiri kwenikweni, ngakhale zinachitikira akazi ambiri chikusonyeza kuti anthu atengeke kwambiri Kuthokoza ndi ngakhale osyasyalika. Basi chirichonse ayenera kuwunikidwa ndi zoyenerera.

Kwa atsikana amene anazunza funso lakuti: angachite kuti athane ndi munthu, kumeneko si chinsinsi chachikulu. Never hysterics! Iwo kusocheretsa anthu ndi kupereka azisiyana. Mwa zithunzi pa Intaneti mkangano pakati pa apansi kuyang'ana wokongola ndi achigololo, koma moyo weniweniwo iye kufuula chikhumbo chimodzi chokha mu mnyamata mwamsanga kupeza izo kwa iwo eni. Pa nthawi yomweyo, ena oimira kugonana chilungamo overdoing mwanzeru wake ndi kupanda mantha, kupereka nthawi iliyonse akambirane nkhaniyo. Si nthawi zonse zoyenera, azigamula ubale onse ndi wotopetsa kwa achinyamata. Choncho, mmene angachitire ndi munthu, ngati nkhondo ukadali kuchitika? Yekha zolondola yankho la funso limeneli si ndi sindingakhoze. Tiyenera kudalira yanu yodziŵiratu zinthu pasadakhale. Nthawi zina muyenera kwinakwake chete, pafupi chinachake diso, ndi zina amphamvu kusakhutira adzakhala iyenera kutilimbikitsa kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu si kumangokumbukira.

Ndipo komabe, momwe zinthu kutsogolo kwa munthu, kotero iye akhala pafupi, ndi ubwenzi anali ngati nthano? Chinsinsi zofunika kwambiri, muyenera kukhala nokha nthawi zonse. Musaphwanye kumanga kuchokera kukongola amapha kapena obtuse cutie. Ingokhalani momwe muli mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. mwamuna si wokonzeka kugonjera tsiku, kumene udindo waukulu ndi ankaimba ndi bwenzi lake. Iye amafuna kuti ndibwere kunyumba ndi chakudya pamodzi kugawana maganizo awo pa zimene zikuchitika, kuwona filimu pamodzi, kupita kukayenda ndi alipidwa chokwanira, waulemu, wanzeru komanso wachikondi bwenzi lake.