Chokhudza nkhani yogonana molunjika - njira yokhayo basi bwino?

nthawi A pamene dziko lathu "analibe kugonana," akhala wadutsa mu chisokonezeko. Lero, pa phunziro ili momasuka kulankhula zonse ndi osiyanasiyana. Inde, ndi ubwenzi pakati pa anthu a amuna okhaokha kapena akazi salinso nkhani ya Code Wachifwamba, monga azimuth kachitidwe. Ngakhale kuti chokhudza nkhani yogonana ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi tsopano sanalinso yekha chomveka, zamaganizo, sexologists ndi amuna ena akuluakulu ali otopa kukanganira za izo. Pankhaniyi, pali mitsutso amphamvu onse mbali ndi adani a akazi okhaokha chikondi. Kuti funso sazitcha ngakhale akatswiri mu boma. Ife musadandaule tokha cholinga ichi. ntchito yathu - atchule mfundo yekha odziwika.

Tiyeni tiyambe ndi chachikulu. The lathu ambiri - mwamuna ndi mkazi. Kukopa amuna akukumana oposa 90% ya chiwerengero cha anthu padziko lapansi. Gay ndi amuna bisexual n'chochepa kwambiri (mwina chifukwa khalidwe lawo kugonana imatengedwa nthenda).

Kudziwa ngati nthumwi za kugonana makamaka amapezeka mwana ndi zaka zisanu. Kenako, munthu kupanga adzadziwire kugonana ndi lathu la chilakolako chogonana.

sexologists kwambiri ndi zamaganizo ndikukhulupirira kuti lathu la hetero kapena Homo yaikidwa ku ubwana. Maganizo awo, zimadalira ndi maphunziro oyenera kugonana pa nkhani imeneyi.

Akukhulupirira kuti amuna kapena malezibiyani kukula mu mabanja a kholo limodzi, pamene palibe umodzi wa makolo. Komabe, si bwino kumene mu nkhani iyi, pali bisexuals.

Malinga ndi Baibulo lina - chokhudza nkhani yogonana yaikidwa m'mimba. Chifukwa kupatuka mwakale ndi matenda opatsirana. Lero, akatswiri ambiri amatchula mmene chilengedwe moyo ndi chikhalidwe pa zomwe wachinyamata kugonana. Komabe, zikuoneka kuti chifukwa ichi kwambiri ndi ndale kuposa sexologists.

Komabe, ngakhale sitili pa malamulo alionse amakonda kugonana anthu ambiri amakonda makolo. Izi bwino anatsimikizira ndi kuyesera, wochitidwa ndi zamaganizo American.

Ku mabanja angapo Adalenga chinthu monga kulankhula ndi. Malinga ndi zikhalidwe za kogona kwathunthu choletsedwa kuchita chilichonse mitundu kugonana, kusankha abwenzi malinga kukhumbira kugonana.

Pa nthawi ina mu "banja" ulemu zaufulu kufunga ndi kusintha kuja abwenzi mapwando gulu. Koma patapita kanthawi, onse kumene ogaŵikana mabanja mwamuna ndi mkazi, anakhala yekha, ndipo anayamba mwachangu kuteteza ubwenzi wawo ku kuukira.

Kumene, monogamy ndi lathu kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi - mwambo, mbiri anapanga m'moyo. Koma kunena kuti ichi ndi chokhacho njira kukhazikitsa chilakolako cha kugonana, si koyenera. Pali osachepera atatu zina Buku chitsanzo khalidwe.

Mwa njira, zamaganizo Canada nsembe kudzaza mndandanda ochepa komanso ogona. Malinga ndi iwo, ichi ndi lathu lomwelo kugonana monga zina kuti adzipeza kapena Homo.

Tsopano pang'ono za mmene mawonekedwe a zopatuka mwakale. Society pafupifupi anagwirizana ndiyo kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha monga chiwerewere. N'zosadabwitsa, madona - kumbali ya akazi okhaokha chikondi, ubwenzi zambiri ololera.

Komabe, asayansi amakhulupirira kuti mizu ya vuto kugona zakuya kwambiri. Choyamba muoneni pa nkhani ya kugonana monga mbali ya psyche anthu amadzinenera Karl Ulrichs (1825-1895), amene anali geyi. Pamene munthu chidwi, anayandikira nkhani mwatsatanetsatane ndi angapo zaka yatulusa ntchito sayansi "The zinsinsi kuphunzira chikondi pakati pa anthu."

Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, mawu akuti "chokhudza nkhani yogonana" tsiku ndi tsiku, iye anayambitsa izo. Ambiri a m'nthawi yake silinachirikize mnzake. Malinga ndi mawonekedwe a nthawi mtsutso pa TV kusindikiza Richard Krafft-Ebing anamasulidwa opus wake, amene amatchedwa mathanyula osati monga "chikhalidwe osachiritsika a m'maganizo."

Modabwitsa, lero ndi unyinji wa kumbali ya chiphunzitso ichi, amene amalangiza njira zosiyanasiyana chilango maganizo a khalidwe wakhalidwe losalongosoka posankha naye chiwerewere. Komabe, milandu "mozizwitsa" silinakwaniritsidwe anati.

Mu esoteric chikutanthauza kumeneko nazo maganizo. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti maubale akazi okhaokha musataye mogwirizana, kuyambira akumanidwa magawo awiri (amuna ndi akazi). Pankhaniyi kulankhula za chikondi pakati pa abwenzi konse ndi zosayenela.
Komabe, kuphunzitsa, wolangiza, ponena kuti chiphunzitso cha chipembedzo ndi maganizo a anthu ambiri akhoza kukhala aliyense. Koma musaiwale kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi ufulu kutaya mtembo wake nzeru zake yekha. Njira yothetsera yoyenera vutolo likhoza kukhala kulolerana ndi kulolerana kwa amene ali ochepa.