Chimwemwe ndi chiyani?

Mwina aliyense wa ife zimene ankaganiza ndi chimwemwe. Ndi funso wosatha wa anthu ozunzidwa moyo. Pamene anafunsidwa ndi anthu mazana zimene osangalala, ndikukhulupirira, zana mayankho osiyana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti munthu aliyense akuona akamanena za chimwemwe m'njira zosiyanasiyana, njira zawo. Tsopano ife yesani kuyankha funso kodi chimwemwe.

Munthu aliyense mu dziko lino osangalala. Koma kodi chimwemwe? Inde, mukhoza kunena kuti izi siziri choncho. Koma taganizirani za funso ili, inu akunena chinthu chomwecho. chimwemwe n'chiyani, mukhoza kufunsa, chifukwa anthu ambiri? Iwo ankakhulupirira kuti wodala iye amene ali ndi maphunziro, osangalala ndiponso logwirizana banja ndi kugwirizana wabwino m'deralo. Mfundo imeneyi anatulutsa posachedwapa asayansi American. Koma ngati inu kuganizira mozama ndikuganiza yekha, likukhalira kuti chimwemwe lagona pa chilichonse. Inu musachoke funso kodi chimwemwe? Ndiye, ife kufotokoza kwa inu. Chimwemwe - ndi kudzuka pabedi ndi wokondedwa wanu pa cheza yowala ndi kutentha kwa dzuwa, zomwe zikuwoneka pa zenera lako. Chimwemwe - ndi mtolo mu bulangeti pa madzulo nyengo yachisanu, kuti zithunzi akale ndi zakale. Chimwemwe - ziri zanu zonse maloto, maloto amene sangakhoze konse kubwera zoona, koma izo nthawizonse kukhala maloto. Chimwemwe - ndi kukonda popanda kukumbukira, chikondi mozama ndi matanthauzo wachikondi komanso kuganizira za china chilichonse. Chimwemwe - ndi kusangalatsa makolo kupereka mphatso, pitani pamene akalamba. Chimwemwe pokhala ndi ana nampsopsonetsa zala zawo pang'ono ndi kuwathamangitsa iwo pa udzu wobiriwira. Inde, n'zotheka kuti atchule mphindi onse a moyo, kumbukirani chomwe icho chinali, ndi kuti ndimalota za chimene chidzagwa. Kuti ndi chimwemwe.

Mwinamwake, amene anataya chikhulupiriro kuti iye amakhala, pemphani, ndipo kodi inu osangalala? Ndipo sizikusoweka kuyang'ana, ilo lili pafupi kwambiri. Koma ena osaganizira kapena sakufuna kuona. Pamene inu muli okondwa, moyo wanu kwasanduka music, izo silimatha kuwomba ngati kale lonse. Ndipo nyimbo zimene zikumveka wa moyo kwa inu, izo zimatengera munthu. Ngati nyimbo ndi yowala, kudya, mokweza, zimene zimapangitsa inu kuvina gule openga, ndiye kuti mosakayikira, muli kwambiri osangalala munthu mu dziko. Koma ngati inu muli maganizo, maganizo, nyimbo chete, yosasangalatsa, wosakwiya. Koma mulibe n'kumatsatira kudikirira chinthu, monga inu endorphins chimwemwe kapena, ngati iwo amatchedwa mahomoni chimwemwe. Nchiyani, mupempha? Kwa kupanga timadzi izi osangalala akukumana ubongo wanu. Asayansi ayamba kufufuza njira kwa nthawi yaitali. Kuchuluka kwa endorphins izo zimatengera maganizo anu, maganizo, mtima. Ngati sikokwanira kwa iwo, mumaona sakumvetsa, ndatopa inu nonse, ine kubisala mu ngodya ina, ndipo sanafune kumva kapena kuona. Koma zingakhale zosavuta kukonza, kudya zakudya zina zokwanira, ndi mlingo wa mahomoni chimwemwe adzayamba kukula mofulumira, ndipo chotero, mwetulirani, mukhala amphamvu ndi moyo, inu mukufuna kuseka, kuthamanga ndi kusangalala chilichonse. Choncho kodi zakudya ndidzamuukitsa inu pa mapazi anu? Izi tsabola wofiira ndi nthochi, mdima chokoleti ndi ayisikilimu, Seaweed ndi amondi. Kudya mankhwala chimodzi kuchokera mndandanda, mudzakhala mkangano wa mphamvu, maganizo, nyonga. Sindikufuna kudya, chotupa mu mmero sadzapita - pali njira! Zogonana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ndi kugonana ngati palibe kulera mlingo wa chimwemwe peresenti zana. Ndipo pali njira ina kuti amasuke wabwino wa mahomoni akazi - pakati. Woyembekezera, zinabala kwambiri mahomoni chimwemwe, nufikira pachimake pa kubadwa kwake. Koma pali drawback chimodzi - mlingo akutsikira pamene kuwala limapezeka mwana, kenako mukalandire postpartum maganizo. Koma bwanji kuti tichotse ndi kulera mlingo wa endorphins, izo tatchulazi.

Chimwemwe - ndi mphindi chodabwitsa mu moyo wa munthu aliyense, amene akhale amodzi chachiwiri, ndipo akhoza kukhala moyo wautali. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chimwemwe wakhala ndi ife. Ichi ndi chilinganizo bwino. Kodi ndingapeze chimwemwe? Inu pozungulira ndipo tione, ndipo tikupita kupeza izo.