Anakwatirana kunja, kapena chimwemwe zitha kumwetulira kwa aliyense!

Kwambiri "opusa" mafilimu, ine nthawizonse ndimaganiza ndi melodrama chikondi, makamaka za akazi "Balzac" zaka amene amasangalala nkhope ya amuna abwino ndi wolemera popanda ntchito! Chabwino, kumene kunena, inu nawona anthu eni chuma zaka 45-55 amene anasankha kukwatira mkazi wake "msinkhu" osati kukongola achinyamata amene anabwera kugonjetsa likulu?

M'malo mwake, anthu Russian, monga watanthauzo, pomwepo kusintha koyamba, ngati iwo anayikidwa pa udindo wa kukwatira yaitali miyendo "Abiti Apatity"!

Koma mnzanga wokhulupirika anafunitsitsa kukwatiwa ine Komabe, kukhala zimakupiza Intaneti, ndinaganiza kuchita izo achirendo kwambiri - anayamba kufunafuna mabungwe ukwati kuonetsetsa ufulu chibwenzi ndi ine anawerengedwa mmodzi wa pamanambala awa. Malinga ndi malo, anali wokongola olimba ukwati bungwe, amene anatha asonkhanitse kwambiri nthunzi.

Kalata yoyamba ndinalandira pambuyo pa sabata. Chimodzi - ndi nzika German - I yomweyo anakana: kodi mungatani, ndi chikumbukiro cha amunamuna womwalirayo agogo, yemwe akanati wotembenukira manda ake, kundiletsa kuwonana ndi Hans! Inde, ndipo zikuoneka kuti iye sanatero kwambiri, ngakhale pamaso pa nyumba ina yaing'ono pafupi Munich ndi galimoto yabwino.

Kenako makalata awiri ku "palibe nsomba" ine suitors, ndipo pambuyo makalata awiri kapena atatu ine apangidwe makalata, podziwa kuti si kwambiri muyenera mkazi, monga zamaganizo ufulu!

Koma m'kupita Ine anasankha makalata asanu kwa anthu amene ndakhala chidwi kulankhula, kotero ife kupita ngakhale mlingo wa "Skype".

Monga momwe ine ndikumvera, chibwenzi zambiri amakumana ndi mzake vuto - chotchinga chinenero, koma anthu akhoza kuyankhula Chingerezi. Kumene, ndinali pang'ono yovuta, koma palibe - mothandizidwa ndi dikishonale, manja ndi zochepa mawu amenewa ine mwanjira atengere yekha kulankhula nawo, ndipo pang'onopang'ono kuwongolera English awo. Kunena zoona, panthawi imeneyo sindinadziwe kuganiza kuti chibwenzi yachilendo kungachititse kuti ukwati, okha tsopano madzulo sikunathandize kanthu ndi wotopetsa - ndinafika kunyumba, anatsegula kompyuta ndi kunditumiza ku dziko lina ... M'dziko limene wabwinobwino, amuna moyo, koma si monga mnansi wanga, amene tsiku lina amenye mkazi wake mu dziko, mothandizidwa yachibadwa zachipatala, m'dziko limene mkazi sakuyenera "kukokera wanu" nyumba yonse ... ine ndikudziwa iye absentia, kupempha anzake atsopano, kuonera zithunzi awo ngakhalenso kuwamvetsera etovaniya moyo.

Patapita miyezi ingapo, tinaganiza zopita ku mlingo lotsatira - bungwe ukwati bungwe kubera anthu Moscow, ndi mwa njira yakuti iwo "anawoloka" ndi mzake.

Kumene, tionane ndi kulankhulana ndi "Skype" - kusiyana aakulu awiri, monga iwo amati ku Odessa!

Ine ndiyamba ndi chakuti awiri ofuna kuti si amandikonda. Mmodzi kunapezeka kuti paliponse pafupi wopatsa monga izo zinkawoneka nkhani. Ayi, ine ndamva, ine sanayembekezere kwa iye miliyoni maluwa ofiira ndi mpandadenga mu m'thumba, koma pa chakudya mu odyera wotchipa, akanatha anandipempha? M'malo mwake, ife chimayendayenda Moscow ndi kujambulidwa - angathe "mkwatibwi" si ngakhale anandipempha anafuna kudya, ndi kumapeto a kuyenda pa munali musaganizepo ananditengera kunyumba kwathu! Pa nthawi yomweyo kuti iye munthu wosauka simungathe: anaima ku Hotela si wotchipa anali atavala bwino Komanso, anabwera kuchokera ku Holland labizinesi.

Munthu winayo ine sanali chabe. Mu "Skype" Ndinaona nkhope yake, ankaoneka kwambiri sporty ndi pati zithunzi. Ndipo ine anabwera kudzakumana nane munthu chosiyana - ena lotayirira, yonseyo ndi kwambiri zinali. Zinali zovuta kulankhula ndi iye, kotero ubale m'tsogolo, ine sindinali kugwirizana.

Koma ena atatu ndinkamufuna - amuna zabwino, ambiri, osati anyamata, ndi maloto, kotero nawo masiku zinkapita ngati mapiko. Mwatsoka Ine sanathenso kusankha zawo mokomera mmodzi wa iwo - Ine sindiri msungwana, Ine ndine zaka 43., ndi Ndakhala cholakwika mu moyo wawo kuti mfundo mopupuluma.
Ndiye anadza gawo lachiwiri la epic "Kwatirani kunja" - ndinali kupita pa ulendo suitors angathe.

Zinali Australia (Canberra), Italy (Naples) ndi Switzerland (Bern). Izo sizinali ulendo wanga woyamba kunja, koma nthawi yoyamba imene ine sanachite zinthu monga kuthandizira ulendo! Koma ambiri, zinali ulendo yosatheka kuneneka, ngakhale, ndithudi, palibe laling'ono "manyazi" sanachite. Mwachitsanzo, banja lina ku Italy mkwati ananditengera osati ofunda - amaoneka kuyiwona mtsikana amene adzabereka iwo zambiri adzukulu. Koma sindinafunse kulabadira izo - Ndaona kuti bwenzi langa amaona ine ndekha, koma akazi ena, chotero basi kusangalala tchuthi chanu.

Mu Switzerland, ine anakwanitsa kusochera! Inde, chabwino, izo Francois zinthu monga weniweni njonda, kotero patapita maola awiri tinali pamodzi. Mwa njira, pachiyambi ine sanali mnzanga chizolowezi zofunikila kuphunzira ngongole odyera, komano ndinazindikira - ndi mwazi wake Choncho, adaleka kulabadira izo!

Koma patapita masiku awiri mu Australia, ndinazindikira kuti dziko si ine. suitor anga angathe anangobwera kukhala pamunda, koma kwa ine, popanda lalikulu moyo mzinda kumeneko. Komanso, ine kale anazindikira bwino kuti ine ndimafuna kukhala yekha ndi Francois.

Ambiri, sinditero zinali - mu chaka chatha, pambuyo pa Catholic Christmas, tinakwatirana, ndipo tsopano theka chaka Ine mwalamulo ndikukhala otchedwa Madame Fransua Verde. Pamene tikukhala Bern, kale mwamuna wanga sanafune lalikulu lalikulu nyumba, koma tsopano ife kale anayamba kuganiza kugula nyumba mu mzinda, chifukwa ine ndikuyembekezera mwana! Mwa njira, kusintha chinthu chimodzi pa moyo wanga - tsopano ndikukhala akuonera melodrama, ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti chimwemwe zitha kumwetulira pa ife pa m'badwo uliwonse! Wachimwemwe ndi kukwatiwa kunja!