'Agulugufe mmimba' - chizindikiro cha chikondi

Aha, achinyamata, achinyamata ndi kutsitsimuka ... Madzulo kuyenda mu manja mobisa makolo, masiku mayeso woyamba wamanyazi kukupsopsonani, chikondi achinyamata. Kodi zikhoza kukhala bwino pamene nthawi osasamala mu moyo wa munthu aliyense? maganizo amenewa sichidzabwerezedwa nthawi yaitali ndipo adzakhala kosatha chikumbutso cha masiku yonyezimira ya unyamata chikondi.

Ndithudi ambiri a mawu bwino za chikondi, kugwirizana ndi kumverera kwa "agulugufe mmimba." Ndi otchuka monga mwa achinyamata. Koma pano pa nthawi kumvetsa si mophweka. Komabe, ndendende bola ngati mtima wanu kuthetsa zina munthu, amene mwadzidzidzi umayamba chikondi. awa wowopsa "agulugufe mmimba" ndipo chifukwa chikondi akufotokozedwa ngati imeneyi mfundo yachilendo chiyani?

Ndipotu, izo, mosamalitsa chilankhulire, euphoria yemweyo kuti zimene munthu pa zokumana chikondi. Mwachitsanzo, pamene chinthu choyamikiridwa chitadutsa, ndiye chisangalalo ndi chilakolako obsessive kukopa osachepera nusu chidwi nyamayo m'mimba yathu achilendo tanthauzo la kuyamwa. Pa nthawi yomweyo nkhawa m'mimba wabwerera, ndi tickling kuwala minofu chidule ndipo amachititsa awa "agulugufe mmimba."

fanizo amasonyeza yachilendo zimene thupi la munthu kuti kusintha komwe kumachitika mu izo pa chikondi. Pa nthawi yomweyo wina ali nazo. Winawake padera mu maganizo abwino komanso chikondi cha chimwemwe wopandamalire choti pa zomwe gulu ndi mnzanuyo. Ena amanena kuti ngati agulugufe mmimba flutter anga pamene iwo ali mu chikondi ndi mobisa ndi kwathunthu sakhulupirira aliyense chinsinsi chake. Ndipotu angakhale chibadwidwe ndi lapamtima kuposa kukhala pafupi fano wake ndi kuwotcha ndi chilakolako kukhudza dzanja lake, kumva kutentha kwa khungu, mokoma kukoka pa. Ndithudi, anthu ambiri ali ndi maganizo ambiri nkhani imeneyi m'mabuku. chikondi Unrequited wakhala chandamale cha zikamera mawu atsopano kotheratu zapadera.

Chinthu chimodzi chili, kuti "agulugufe mmimba" pa nthawi imene tikulankhula za malingaliro lapamwamba ndi mokhudza. Palibe malo olamulirawo ndi mawerengedwe ozizira. M'kupita kwa nthawi, kumverera uku tingalingalire ku chinachake chachikulu. Tenepa bvundza anthu amanena kuti sakhalanso ndi kudabwa zodabwitsazi, monga zowawa kuwala kwa ndiwachabe ankasewera mapiko pang'ono kwinakwake basi pansipa nthiti. Pamene unagona ndi kulowa msinkhu ndi kukwera sitepe, "agulugufe mmimba" kumanja kupereka njira kudzilimbitsa, kuyeza ndi bata. Ndi zoipa? Konse. Bata yekha kumalimbitsa mabanja, kuwapatsa mtendere ndi mgwirizano. Ichi ndi chofunika kwambiri, makamaka pa nthawi imene abwenzi akhala limodzi kwa nthawi yaitali.

Monga inu mwina atha kupanga lingaliro la flutter m'mimba mwa achinyamata osati osasamala ndi mphepo m'mutu mwanga. Chikondi, monga inu mukudziwa, a mibadwo yonse (ndi udindo), wogonjera. Sayenera kuopa kuti "agulugufe mmimba" kusokoneza tulo tanu, mpumulo ndi njira kabwerebwere wa moyo. Ngakhale kwambiri atakhala ndi wamkulu umunthu nthawi zina ayenera kumverera chinachake chapadera palokha. Palibe kuposa chikondi losavuta? Ngakhale sichikwiya woposa ndi kukopana wamba kapena otchedwa "tchuthi chikondi".

"Agulugufe mmimba" - Ndi chizindikiro yotsimikizika kuti nthawi zina zochita openga. Iwalani osachepera mwachidule za udindo wawo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi mavuto, kufunika kokhala mkati mwa chimango cha makhalidwe onse. Ife okonda mulibe malamulo aliyense zovuta ndi kudya. Kumva kwambiri achinyamata ndi wosadziwa mnyamata amene ankakhala mwamantha akudikira bwenzi pakhomo, awkwardly nditagwira kumbuyo maluwa a daisies ndi tulips. Ndipo inu, anasiyiratu olemekezeka dona. Iwalani kwa kamphindi za masuti anu ofesi ndi stilettos mtengo chitsanzo nsapato. Kumbukirani momwe kamodzi nampsompsona ofunda m'chilimwe shawa. ... Isanafike chizungulire akamaganizira za ... Pamaso agulugufe mmimba mwanga ...